Do you ever feel useless?
By CarolaMuller
@CarolaMuller (1210)
Italy
December 4, 2006 4:36pm CST
In your life, was there a day in which you feel useless?
I felt really sad today...=° I thought that my existence is useless for everyone I know...And I start to cry like a little child..XD Fool, neh..XD
When you feel useless what you do?
13 responses
@CarolaMuller (1210)
• Italy
4 Dec 06
Yeah...I think that crying is the best way to get free from that pressure...i hate to have moments like these..
@GourdBreaker (490)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
try to do something which you really, really love to do. because you usually excel in the things you love to do. right? right! =D and with that, you'll love yourself because you know that you can do this almost perfectly. forget about that negative thought, it will just give you wrinkles. nobody's useless anyway. ;) =D
@CarolaMuller (1210)
• Italy
8 Dec 06
You're right..I've to be strong è_é I have to find the way to fight this xD
@rikpallav (1242)
• India
5 Dec 06
I did once when I did passed with very low grades in my 12th exam and I am the only prson in the whole family to that the bad in the exam ... at that point of time I really feel useless.
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@Janus7602 (143)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I feel that way at some point everyday. I usually try to find something that I find value for me. When that occurs, then I feel like maybe there is something of use for myself, and therefore others. I have to find value for me, not others. If i count on others to dictate my own value, then I will always feel useless and therefore worthless.
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@blanksolid (1631)
• Spain
5 Dec 06
i neve feel useless because i think that the people need me
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@pearlcharm (300)
• Philippines
5 Dec 06
Yes i sometimes feel that im useless. I wonder whats the real reason of my existence. I cry if i feel that way but my faith is strong that God let us live for a mission.
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@CarolaMuller (1210)
• Italy
5 Dec 06
Mh, thanks for your comm...I always think about my mission here..xD But i don't find answer
@GardenGerty (160697)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Yes, I have. For me it works better to find someone to help. Read to a child, pet a pet. Sometimes, yes, a good nap might help, but I am more of the get up and move it type of person. Everywhere there are groups and organizations that need help--find one. You always feel better after you make someone elses life better. Find someone on myLot who needs you to post--you are not useless.
@CarolaMuller (1210)
• Italy
4 Dec 06
Thanks ^^ Yeah..Ihih, I stress my friends, I always ask for help...and I'm lucky 'cause the most of the time they help me..^^
@dan20071 (724)
• Romania
5 Dec 06
When you feel useless just think that you live your life for yourself and not for others :D. You can cry if you really need to but that doesn't help sometimes. You will have to show everyone that they are useless without you. Make them want to call you to help them or just keep them company. Show them that they need you and not vice versa. That always works, because feeling useless gives you power and in time, this makes you stronger. We all learn from our mistakes, at least I do ;)). Good luck to you and remember that no one is useless in this world ;)
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@avonelle26 (364)
• Anguilla
11 Dec 06
I think most people in there life time feel abit useless. It is a hard way to feel. Sometime I would find myself going to the beach away from people and think and try to get grap on my life and who are important in my life.
@sweetpea_216 (1470)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Sometimes I feel like I don't have a purpose. But then I pick up my bible and read or I start praying. I also do crafts so I can make something for someone. Something that they might use.
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@pcbulawanv (680)
• Austria
4 Dec 06
Yes sometimes when i committed a mistake that i believe that i could have avoided. I think its normal for anybody to feel useless sometimes. If you feel it most of the time, then i think its nolonger normal. And better consult a doctor
@CarolaMuller (1210)
• Italy
4 Dec 06
Thanks^^ No, I don't feel it most of the time, it happens when something is arriving..I mean...Something like feasts...Christmas is arriving!o.o and before Xmas i dunno why, but I feel almost always sad..XD