What do you do when your ex keep wanting you back?

if you know he will hurt you then stay clear of him,,it wont do your confidence any good to try and fail again with this man,,leave him alone and find someone who is good to and for you.

Actions speaks louder than words ..so obviously his intentions are not out of love but selfishness- maybe even control. A man who loves you, treats you with respect and love not with abuse No you shouldn't fulfill any of his needs if you don't feel like it .Tell him to leave you alone and ignore him if its possible

Move on, if you are stuck in a cycle of hurt with him, it probably won't change. Cut your losses and move on and start a new life.

in my opinion getting hurt in a relationship isnt healthy so you should just move away and ignore him..ask yourself the question is this wat makes you happy, if not then there is no reason why you should go on with the relationship

I always believe him and keeps my distance again and again everything he threatens to hurt. I think thats what it is.There is no perfect partner. So settler with someone you love.

First, you have to figure out why you consider what you feel for your ex love if all he has done is hurt you over and over again. It does not sound like you love the right person, which is yourself. People will treat us the way we allow them to and your ex knows that he can mistreat you because you keep accepting it. That is not love, but an unhealthy, cycle of abuse. If you are really tired of being hurt by him, you will move on with your life and disassociate yourself from this loser. That means no more chances to hurt you again, no more contact, and no more leaving a door open for him to return. This time you really do have to end it with him cold turkey. He is no good for you. It's only when you realize that will you truly let him go and move on to a guy that when he says he loves you, means it by not hurting you. All the best, Zuri http://askzuri.blogspot.com

One word...RUN. I would not want to get back into something where you are constantly being hurt. Id rather deal with the pain of losing him, which will eventually subside, rather than deal with the pain he causes you in the relationship regularly. There is someone out there for you that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

i will throw him out from the wondows

I can honestly say I have been there. My ex was always wanting me back whenever it was convenient for him. I loved him so I would give it another try. He hurt me emotionally over and over again. Finally one day I had had enough of it. I didnt take him back and he didnt know what to think. Sometimes someone just has to be hurt so bad that they cant possibly take anymore before they will give up.

If he loves you as much as he claims he wouldn't be hurting you, move on and find someone who really loves you and knows the meaning of love. You deserve better that to be hurting.

Realise that he has constantly hurt you. Sometimes there is just no hope. Be strong and firm as you would to a child. Say no, mean no. And walk away. Change your phone number if you have to.

It is all up to you. Do you want to work it out, take him back, believe his lies, and constantly keep getting hurt? I would think you would leave him alone. But, another alterntive is praying and asking God to direct you. God Bless

Let him go, it will never work! You deserve better and you WILL find it.

he is an ex for a reason, never go back to something I was done with. I just ignore him, no need to relive the pain again.

Well, if he keeps hurting you the best thing is to move on, love doesn't hurt,if he truly loves you like he says he wouldn't be hurting you. You deserve someone who will completly love you not hurt you. Good Luck

Well he or she in your ex for a reason ... I think you just ignore him there will be someone else to come along.

If he hurts you...than that's no reason to go back with him! There's a difference between the problems of a couple and issues that won't go away! Most problems in a relationship can be solved but If he's constantly hurting you, or even begging you to go back with him than he's the one with the problem. If he claims to love you and wants you back make him prove to you once and for all that he won't hurt you again. I've had quite a few bf and I'm only 22. And believe me....I never want to be like my mother or a couple of my sisters. My mom puts up with verbal abuse almost everyday. My sisters and I tell her to get a divorce from my dad and leave. She won't do it I don't understand her reasons. I know I don't want to live a life of abuse. My Oldest sister had gone through an abusive relationship. My nephew and her were hiding out from her husband because he wanted to hurt them. After a while they got a divorce but she was stupid because she kept going into the relationship knowing what could happen. I know for a fact that if someone as to much tells me im stupid or whatever I know I won't put up with it! That's how physical abuse starts with verbal abuse. I don't want my kids or I to have to put up with stuff like that. And just to let you know guys that are abusive NEVER CHANGE!