MORE UNANSWERED QUESTIONS ABOUT MY DIVORCE!!!

United States
December 5, 2006 2:37am CST
OK THE AGES OF MY DAUGHTERS ARE 2 YRS AND 1 MONTH. MY HUSBAND IS 23. HE HAS BEEN ON AND OFF OF MEDS. HE DIDNT FEEL HE NEEDED THEM. HE WOULD TELL ME THAT I WAS THE ONE WHO NEEDED THEM. HE JUST GOT BACK FROM A YEAR TOUR IN IRAQ. HE IS INFANTRY AND WAS ON THE FRONT LINE AND HAD TO GO THROUGH THE BAD STUFF. HE LOST QUIT A FEW FRIENDS. HE ALREADY HAD THE PROBLEMS AS FAR AS WHAT I MENTIONED BUT THINGS GOT WORSE WHEN HE GOT BACK. HE IS TOO STUBBORN TO GO TALK TO ANYBODY OR GET ANY HELP. WE ALSO TRIED MARRIAGE COUNCELING BUT HE GOT MAD AND WALKED OUT ON OUR LAST SESSION. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 3 1/2 YEARS AND MARRIED 2 OF THEM. I FEEL THAT HE ONLY WANTS TO BE A PART TIME FATHER BECAUSE THERE ARE HOLIDAYS IN THE DIVORCE THAT HE DOESNT WANT OR CARE TO HAVE HIS KIDS ON, I GUESS DUE TO BETTER THINGS HE HAS TO DO. WE DO NOT AND HAVE NOT LIVED TOGETHER FOR ABOUT A MONTH OR SO NOW. HE COMES BY HERE AND THERE BUT ITS USUALLY LATE AT NIGHT SO HE HAS A FEW TIMES STAYED THE NIGHT. I GUESS HE WAS TOO TIRED TO DRIVE. BUT HE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME AND TRIES TO CONTROL ME. HE GIVES ME MONEY EVERY FRIDAY BUT THREATENS TO STOP. I WANT TO THANK EVERYBODY FOR THEIR ADVICE. I HAVE THOUGHT ALOT ABOUT IT AND I FEEL A DIVORCE IS NEEDED. IF YOU HAVE A COMMENT AFTER READING MORE ABOUT IT THAT WOULD BE GREAT. THANK YOU!!!!!!!
3 responses
@witmuch (184)
• United States
19 Jan 07
i feel for you here too! i don't know all the things goingon with you two, but i do pray that he will come to his senses and stop telling tales behind your back. i have heard some things and i will refrain from repeting because it is none of my business but i didn't think that it was fair for what was said. i am praying for you and your girls and i pray that God is blessing your lives! Lots of Love! witmuch
• United States
8 Dec 06
ok i said i was going to stay out of it but not right now lol. i think you should do what you think is right for your girls thats what matters. how they feel and how there going to take everthing in your oldest old is smart so knows har dad is not around. so do what you feel in your heart is right k call me later lol
@tanujarneja (2829)
• India
5 Dec 06
Well dont go for a divorce yaar Atleast think about your future and your daughters