Regifting - tacky? or plain smart
By yarntales
@yarntales (639)
United States
December 5, 2006 8:38am CST
Regifting is when you take a present given to you and give it to someone else.
Is it tacky?
Or do you think it is a smart way to get rid of a present you dont want?
Have you ever regifted?
I have. I do it all the time. I do be careful to give it into a new circle of friends. I do a lot of online swaps, so get a lot of stuff I won't use.
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8 responses
@tentwo67 (3382)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Within reason I think that regifting is just fine. I saw a news story about it, I think on 20/20, and they recommend doing a log if you plan to regift so you can remember where a gift came from when it's time to send it on!
My funniest experience with regifting (although I've done it more than this) was when my husband's cousin was marrying this really annoying and pretentious girl about a year and a half after our wedding. When I married, not one but three people sent us these heavy ornate silver serving pieces. I understand they're quite popular but not at all to my taste. I took the most ornate of these and wrapped up for the bridal shower and Little Miss Pretentious adored it. My mother in law was sitting next to me at the shower and later I admitted that it was a regift and she laughed and said that she already knew it because she knew that I wouldn't have selected that thing!
@desertdarlene (8910)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I bet you just wanted to slap that girl! He he!
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@shirgie (230)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Regifting is something I will admit to doing. I have strict rules about it though. If it is simply an undesirable item, it doesn't get regifted. However, if someone gives me something lots of people would enjoy (say for instance candles or aromatherapy), I regift. Last year I got a lovely set of bath and body lotions that I knew I wouldn't use. It was likely an expensive and tasteful item. I regifted it pronto to someone who probably enjoyed it very much. I don't have a lot of money to waste here so the misfit but nice gifts actually work for me in a way.
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@yarntales (639)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Exactly! Someone gave me a gift set recently that I won't use. It is huge and must have cost a pretty penny. So someone on my list will be getting it. Just don't know who yet.
@yarntales (639)
• United States
6 Dec 06
oh dear, i put the wrong pic in......... sorry again, i kept getting an error and forgot what was supposed to go in there
@yarntales (639)
• United States
6 Dec 06
Ok, here is something I regifted. It is a pincushion that I received in an exchange.
I have a friend who quilts so I gave it to her last year.
@desertdarlene (8910)
• United States
26 Dec 06
I think I would feel guilty. Though, lately, I was thinking of giving some things away to Goodwill because I don't like the person who gave them to me. That way, someone would get some use from it.
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@yarntales (639)
• United States
1 Jan 07
Sometimes I'm given things taht are perfect for others. I wish I had a pic of it, but can't find it. Someone gave me a big box of sunflower stuff. I had painted a room for a friend this summer and this stuff was exactly in line with it.
So she got it and loved it.
@yarntales (639)
• United States
3 Feb 07
Good to consider the feelings of others.
Many times the people who I get gifts from are from people via the internet.
So probably they will never come to my house.
@jbb316 (1779)
• United States
5 Dec 06
Yes I think it is ok. There is no need for unwanted items to sit around and collect dust when they can be given to someone who can use them. As long as neither person involved find out that it was regifted then I think it is ok. They won't know the difference and it will all work out.
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@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
28 Dec 06
Oh yeah... I've regifted! We did it a lot with our wedding presents. We kept the cards taped to the box so we wouldn't give it to the person who gave it to us, or someone they know! We've regifted a couple of gifts that my husband got in his office. They just weren't our style at all, and would be perfect for someone else!
I don't see anything wrong with it. Especially if you see the gift and immediately think to yourself, "So and so would LOVE that!"
@yarntales (639)
• United States
10 Jan 07
This type of thing happens to me.
Often someone gives me something, and I'll immediately know it is for someone else.
Most of the time it isn't too hard to give it away, but it can be sometimes.
@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I don't regift a lot, but I have done it. We did it with wedding presents. We've been married 20 years now, and back in those days, people didn't give you the receipt with a gift. And, people didn't seem to be as good about buying things on your gift registry! lol!
We had to be careful with the wedding presents though cause we were the first of all our friends to get married and we knew that we'd be going to a lot of weddings in the next few years and we didn't want to give someone back the gift they gave us! So I put a sticky note on top of each box saying who had given it to us.
I don't see anything wrong with it.
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