Is the Grass Greener on the Other Side?

The grass isn't greener on the other side, it just looks that way :-) I've never cheated on my girl when we were still together but I have to say that I was attracted to other girls. It never happened but if I found myself more than attracted to another girl, I would of broken up with my girlfriend first before proceeding to "get to know" the other girl.

yes i have cheated and at the time it was greenier but that grass diad as quickly as it grew, i will never do it again it cause to many problemsfor all that are involved i cheated on my first love with his best friend ,it lasted about half the time i was with my boyfriend about a year or so off and on then we got together after wards but it didn t work go figure he CHEATED on me what luck lol i learned my leason

Very good discussion! I've never cheated on anyone but I would love to hear what others have to say. Like you I have been cheated on before as well.

i have cheated my girlfrd and my brother to i m a real cheater oh god i m sorry to thim thome i cheated

well i dnt kno wht to say here.....becoz till now i cudnt understand tht i hv cheated or nt i used to talk to sum 1 elder to me....since i hv never seen my grand father i had tht picture and feelings....respect for tht person in my life....he was close to my family members too....rather i got in contact with him thru my own sis......but on the other side tht person had started falling luv with me.....when he told me his feelings.....being elder and too aged i thought tht he must be expecting friendship.....but in reality he expected sum thing else....and this i realise on the same day when i came home while writing my diary.... i called him nd clear the things out.....til now when i say him tht i m jst a frend he say then why i m with him....i believe god.....and i promised to be his frend touching gods feet also i dnt like to break any relations becoz it only frustrates nothing else he feels tht i m a cheater.....sum times i also feel tht....bt i dont kno wht to do...

I don't remember cheating on my husband and I know he never cheats on me. We have been married for 6 years and going strong. It's not there are no opportunity or offers to cheat, but we both have been through quite a few bumps in relationship so we agree that we would not hurt each other. My relationships prior to marriage didn't end because of third parties, but mostly ethnic and material status reasons. My husband's past he never talked about it, so who knows? he might have been betrayed before.

always but with age we are supposed to learn from our experiences

i dont see how people can have two relationships at the same time. there is a reason why people cheat and i think if you are not happy in your relationship then it is time to leave, but people would rather see their loved one hurt. most of the time what goes on in the dark comes to the light. Even if the cheating wasnt taking part in another relationship and maybe just a one night stand. where is the enjoyment in that. One night of pleasure. You could have gotten that at home. I dont know i think cheating is stupid. I think love making is beatiful with that one person you really love. I wouldnt cheat and i hope no one ever cheats on me

I have never cheated anyone. First of all I don't have a girl friend!!! But i would say no to cheaters because it hurts ur boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse a lot. Do not hurt others,instead try to be honest and trust the person you love...