Problem With myself
By shengloug
@shengloug (16)
Philippines
December 5, 2006 9:00pm CST
I' a person with a luck of self-confidence. I'm always losing trust myself everytime I conquer some challenges in my life I dont know why maybe becausie I face some bad experience. What should I do how do i face my weaknesses and fight it. Please give me some advice thank you.
3 responses
@mommamichelle (466)
• United States
6 Dec 06
I also have low self confidence.
I think it's partly from my mother always putting me down when I was a child.
I'm really bad about putting off doing stuff, cause I'm afraid.
here's what I try to do; I try to do at least 1 thing I want to do a month. (I know, some people say 1 a day or week, but that's too much for me).
like, I wanted to go back to school, so I went & signed up & had everything done, so I felt like I had no choice but to really do it. I was good at it :) & I had fun. (LOL, that's how I get myself to do something new, I jump in with both feet & surprizingly I'm usually pretty good at what I try, just coming up with the courage to do it is the hard part).
I bet you are usually good at what you try too.
@shengloug (16)
• Philippines
6 Dec 06
thanks for the advice.. my father always putting me down. Im afraid to disappoint him because of his high expectation to me.
@maevic (819)
• Bahrain
7 Dec 06
it really happends that someimes we have a very low self steem. But always think that not all people are perfect. They maybe intelligent or beautiful but not they don't have anything, there are somethings that you have that you can be proud of and don;'t force yourself to have all the perfect things in life.
@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
6 Dec 06
i think you should try to have more self-confidence in yourself..even if the whole world go against you and put you down, the most important thing is that you have the trust in yourself to be ahead of things/people. always know that you are an individual with your own strength and skill. believe in yourself and love yourself!!