do you get long with your sister and brother
By beverly1
@beverly1 (1128)
United States
December 6, 2006 1:25am CST
i have a sister and we get long ok. but she want me to watch her kids all the time before i got marred i was alway home with them and when i got married she try to run my life she gets mad when i go out and when i spend time with my mom i dont know what to do. i go to bingo with my mom and she gets mad. and when my mom wants to go out she ask my hubby to take her out and she gets so mad and blems me and my hubby for takeing mom away from her. she yell all the time at me and i get uptit and i have to get out of the house and take a ride with my hubby to calm donw. i wish she stop it and grow up. what you think
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8 responses
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
29 Dec 06
Bev you need to tell Virginia to get a life, get a man, and grow up. You are married and have your own life now. You are not her maid or nanny. You, your sister and I went to school together and she has always tried to be your mother. Your mom needs to also step in and tell her to mind her own business too. What your mother does is her business not your sisters. You have everyright to spend time with your mother.
I hope things work out for you.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
28 Dec 06
No, we don't get too good along. We differ as characters and we are all three of us very dominating personalities, so you can imagine the confusion when we are in the same place having a conversation.
@courtlynne77 (4839)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I have two brothers and a siter and I get along with all of them. My sister is pretty much my best friend and someone I admire even though I am the older one. I am also very close to my youngest brother and have long talks with him a couple of times a month. We live a thousand miles apart.
It sounds like your sis needs to grow up a little and realze that it is ridiculous to think you are trying to "steal" your mom. Have you tried to talk to her? Maybe something else is bothering her and she is taking it out on you?
@Poison_Girl (4150)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I get along with both of my sisters ok, although, I used to fight with my younger sister quite often. I never really got along with my brother and I hate him to this day. As for your sister, maybe she's jealous? You can go out whenever you want and with whomever you want and she wishes she had that. I don't know. That's just a theory.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
11 Jan 07
I know how you feel some because my sister and brother David expect me to jump when they say so I don't have any kids and have been married almost 16 years but they make plans for me all the time finally i got tired of it and just strated saying no and it pissed them off believe me but they got over it after a while ocassionally they still try to plan things for me like watching their kids but unless I want to I don't. Of course it is easier doing this if you don't live in the same household living together can be stressful in itself but arguing and living together is hell. My brother and sister is always saying I'm my moms favorite i'm not but they see it as that. and that causes me problems because they say it's becky,becky, becky when it's not when I go to my moms it's usually to help her do stuff and to clean or help my mom in some way they visit her and leave her house messier then when they first got there and leave. Makes me mad. My mom has problems and it is hard for her to clan sometimes she hurt her arm recently and is suposed to take physical therapy. Your sister is jealous of you she is afraid your mom will like you best and your sister needs to take care of her own kids I know she works and needs a break once in awhile but can she get someone else maybe a friend or somebody else to watch them and give you a break? You need to atleast get paid some for watching them I myself even charge $10 for a few hours or even $20 for a full day. And other times I do it free just to spend time with the kids. But I don't think I could handle it everyday all day everyone needs a break. I hope for your sake that she does as you said Stop it and grow up and realize your her sister not the built in babysitter or caregiver. You have the right to spend as much time as you please with your mom she's your mom. And we need to spend as much time with our parents as possible and love them cause one day they may not be here to spend time with and have fun. I wish me and my mom could play bingo that would be fun I love bingo but dont get tot go because i dont have a car. But I think that is what I will give my mom for her birthday a day of bingo. well, I'll get off my soap box now and go. Stay strong and god bless.
@shotgunner101 (315)
• United States
6 Dec 06
yeah until recently when she moved to her dads and now she rags on me about not comeing over even though i hate him.Yeah she sayed she was "pissed off" cus i wont talk to my dad im like what the heck last phone call she gave me was good now this one sucked?