What would u say? ur reaction?

Thats one of my best friends problem what should she do? How long did you wait to have children? My friend and his husband have only been married 4 months but been together 3 years and known each other 15 years. She is 28 , he is 35. she want to start trying for children after christmas but he wants to wait, he doesnt know what he is waiting for just wants to wait. Im just trying to get an idea of how long other couples waited before they had children. Financially they are in a great position to have kids so there are no worries there. Thanss for your opinions and contributions!!

Sorry Bittan i rated you by mistake:P Strange case, they both are not so young then why they are waiting for? I can understand the feelings for your friend as I've seen feelings of a newly married girl how she become just mad to be called a mother.I wonder how they waited for four months? According to you they don't have financial problems, and moreover even if a very poor couple have kids,Financial problem matters only when a couple have two or three kids. So in my point of view,you must ask your friend that she must discuss this matter with her husband in details.Everything seems to be fine,Only thing which i can see is that her husband might facing some medical problem,it could be of any sort but i really don't understand if there could be any problem other then i am thinking. So if that so,her husband must tell everything to his wife and they both should try to find the solution. or you could ask your friend, that whats her idea about her hubby's problem so that we may better point out what to do. Cause its a fact that their life is incomplete until they become mummy papa of a sweet baby. hey one of my friend became papa just few days ago and see how cute is his baby. just see it na:) http://gallery.farrukhahmed.net

I m aslo asking sugessions and want 2 know whats in mind of other peoples.What do thay think like u? Comming 2 the matter he is medically perfect.what should she do else i cant think about that may be he didnt like kids or didnt plan for future??????????? what do u think?

Why divorce. Divorce is not a solution of that matter u can also settle down with ur wife make a discussion with her ask her what is the problem if she told u any thing which u cant immagine that would be happned a serious matter then choose divorce because all of us have different things in our mind for after marridge life some live happyly ever after and some people live horrable lifes.I hope u understand that!!!!!!!

Bittan is right,IF we love our life partner then both should understand each other,So direct going to DIVORCE is not a solution at all.