Do u think we'll last?

@nextgen (1888)
India
September 17, 2006 4:39am CST
I know this girl shes everything i have ever wanted - funny-blonde-smart-not bi-not sluty , and shes SO DAMN BEAUTIFUL,, i mean real beautiful !! we do get along ,, we laugh n everything BUT the problem is she dont live in my counrty she lives like awayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy from me! do u think if we get married it will last? i mean we'r both belive in same religion !! thats a good sign !!!??! do know any people in the same problem? did they last? im really lost !! i cant live without her .,, i feel so empty without her lol
12 responses
@relekar (558)
• India
21 Sep 06
a country shud'nt seperate ur love...is ur love so weak tht only a border line can break it??? go ahead marry her..if ur love is true thn u shud'nt worry abt all this stuff
• Philippines
21 Sep 06
me...
• India
20 Sep 06
love is something tha happens suddenly.if you love her truly then there is no problem in marrying her.but to last ,it wil depend on how you two know eachother.if both of you can understand eachother then your marriage life is going to last forever
• India
21 Sep 06
distance is not a problem if u both really love each other.. probabaly these will be the problems language,race,religion,age,heigh/weight..etc
@oscarc (864)
• India
21 Sep 06
i hope she not just your chat pal or anything....but unless the both of you decide to make it work it won't..so you'll have to put in a lot of effort without shying away..
@mjtenorio (237)
• United States
21 Sep 06
Have yall actually spent time together? Or do you just communicate via phone/internet? Sometimes you can really love someone but as soon as you start spending alot of time with them you realize that you can't stand them. If you get married have you decided who will move where? Are you willing to leave your country to move to hers or vice versa? I believe that if you TRUELLY love each other it will work out.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
17 Sep 06
I fyou get along, are in love, have open communication...there is no reason that it should not last. The one thing you will have to worry about is that you will need to talk about where you two will live, how the home will be set up, finances, kids, and yor long term goals before you get married. Since she lives in another country she grew up in a different culture and her long term plans may be different from yours.
@amiksinha (1960)
• India
17 Sep 06
Who can say if you will last.The only problem you mentioned was distance and if you love each other you'll find a compromise and one of you will move.BUT if you continue to live apart there is a big chance you will grow apart especially if you are young like under 25 or so.people change.i was away from a lover for 2 years and thought i still loved him but soon came to realize we had changed and drifted apart! Very sad but true. good luck
• United States
20 Sep 06
It could last depends on how strongly both of you feel about eachother. where theres a will theres a way if the chemistry and love is strong and real.
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
17 Sep 06
Ok! That's tough to answer. The distance always is a killre. But if you get married the distance won't exist anymore. It is usually a custom that the wife and the husband live together, under the same roof, in the same country. If you do love each other that's ok. You will last. (and I hope you will). If the only party in love is you then try to think about it a little bit more.
@Sweety76 (1594)
• India
17 Sep 06
Hey, don't forget to Love someone you need to have trust your partner and both of you need to work it out. if you have no confident for your relationship thats the end. Always need to trust each other. And both of you must learn how to forgive and forget then you can keep your relationship through the end. Good Luck to you!!!!!
@hotmale (810)
• Pakistan
17 Sep 06
u have to do what u want to