who has a friend they dont know if they trust?

i had some friends in college that i wasnt sure if i could really trust. it seemed like they were just using me and taking advantage of me. i would always do things for them and help them out when they needed, but they were never there for me. but i think in the last few months, since ive moved to europe, i really know who are my real friends. now i wish i could say the same with guys and relationships..:(

Well, she don't sounds as a good friend! If it was me, i would try to talk to her, and tell her that you don't wan't her to tell your other friends the things you tell her! I trust all of my friends! If i didn't trust them, they would not be my friends!