Do you think that you should let your children smoke?

Greece
September 17, 2006 6:29pm CST
Would you spank your child if you learned that he/she smokes? What do you say to him/her?
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• India
5 Nov 06
no not at all
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• Greece
23 Jan 07
Ok! Thanks !
@firelight (1858)
• Australia
5 Nov 06
If they're old enough to be experimenting with smoking, they're much to old to be spanking :S The best you can do is advise and guide them, then hope they make the right decisions.
• Greece
23 Jan 07
The best one I have read so far. I hope you will make them realise how harmful smoking is!
@deitzy (380)
• United States
5 Nov 06
i dont think so, my siblings smoke and it is horrible but then again its their life/body i say let tem do what they want to it AFTER you talk to them about it
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• Greece
23 Jan 07
I don't think this is a good reaction. You have to talk to them. Maybe they won't pay any attention, but you will have done your "duty" towards them.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
5 Nov 06
I will let my child.. beacuse im a smoker too. I will say smoke is not Better to my child so he can choose.
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• Greece
23 Jan 07
Don't let the child do it. Tell in advance what the smoke has done to you!
@Tellknow1 (604)
5 Nov 06
I wouldn't like it but as I am a smoker myself It would be hypocritical of me to try and tell them it was wrong.
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• Greece
23 Jan 07
On the contrary. It will be the best thing to do for them. Show them what smoking has done to you!
@rosey3223 (1566)
• United States
5 Nov 06
From my own experience, I started smoking when I was 14 and my mom didn't find out til I was 16 and said that I couldn't smoke around her til I was 18. And what I did not find fair (but respected it anyway) was the fact that she smokes as well. From that, I have made the decision that if my kids started smoking that I would not encourage it or be happy about it, but I wouldn't deny them of it either. And because I smoke I halfway expect them too and I would actually expect them to shove that in my face. So why fight it. It's not like I could say..."Don't smoke it is bad for you", when I do it myself. And if anyone has the question of "why don't you quit?", because I choose not to. And just like that is my decision, it is theirs as well.
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• Greece
23 Jan 07
I am a smoker too. I tell it to my son from now that I'm sick and I smoke and I can't quit because I'm so sick. And it will come a day that the sickness will pass and I will quit it myself.
@242238 (500)
• China
3 Nov 06
Smoke - Smoking will be your killer
Smoking is doing harms to my health but i just cannot get rid of it.My children will be strictly prohibited to smoke.
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• Greece
5 Nov 06
I don't think it will be easy to prohibit. I think it didn't work with you. Try to show them the lounges we get by smoking!
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• United States
27 Oct 06
depending on the age. If they r 18 or younger i would have to punish them but not by smoking I would have to talk to my husband and we would come up with some idea. I would tell my child as long as he is under the age he will live by our rules.
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• Greece
29 Oct 06
Thank you for answering! Make your best because smoking is killing
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• United States
7 Oct 06
No, I would not spank my child if i found out they were smoking. I sit down and talk to them about the negative affects smoking has on your body.
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• Greece
15 Oct 06
thank you for responding
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• India
18 Oct 06
i dont have any kid..ha ha ha
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• Greece
27 Oct 06
Ok! That's great! ut if you had? What would you do? Do you smoke? Thank you for answering by the way!!!
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• United States
3 Nov 06
I don't spank my children as I ground them instead. But I would beat their @ss if I caught one of them smoking!!
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• Greece
5 Nov 06
Ok, I get it. The idea only drives you mad
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• Bangladesh
23 Jan 07
No,I don't think so.I would not let them to smoke.Everybody knows the bad effect of smoking this days.I can't let my children die infront of my eyes.
• Greece
27 Jan 07
It's the best thing you can do. Really smoking is extremely harmful for our health.
• India
23 Jan 07
i never smoke infront of my parents and they don't have any idea whether their children are smoking or not. they don't want us to smoke.
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• Greece
27 Jan 07
I think you know why they don't want you to smoke. I hope you are making a wise thing by quiting one day soon.
@popaioana (210)
• Romania
28 Jan 07
it is imporatant for your children to realise by their own that smoking distroy your health......and i don't think u can forbite them to smoke cause if they want this they will make anyway
• Greece
12 Feb 07
As always. We were children once and we have to think what we did back at that era.
@zubair439 (3183)
• India
15 Oct 06
definately not never
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• Greece
15 Oct 06
thank you. you don't smoke, right?
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• Germany
7 Oct 06
Neither my wife nor me ever smoked .... so none of our 4 kids started smoking yet .... living in clean air at home and experiencing the bad smell of smoking friends' housholds was enough for all our 4 kides to refrain from smoking ... we never needed to discuss this problem. But one precaution I took: We visited Gunter von Hagens' exhibition "bodyworlds" which showed the plastinated lungs of smokers .... this was very impressive for the whole family .... nowadays this might be done on internet www.bodyworlds.com/
• Greece
15 Oct 06
These kids are very lucky and should be proud of you, and you of them.
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• United States
8 Oct 06
Who in the Hell Would let their Children Smoke!???????? It's ILLEGAL for kids under the age of 18 to smoke in the US!!!! When my kid turns 18 then she will be able to make her own decision....I know smoking is bad for your health but it's totally up to her if she wants to smoke or not!!!
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• United States
8 Oct 06
Well, it all depends on how old they are. If I caught them smoking when they are around 10 or 11, then yes I would spank them. But, I think that once they are a teen, it would be silly to spank them. I would really try to emphasize how bad smoking is to your health and show them some good examples of what smoking can do to them. Of course, if you smoked yourself then it would be hypocritical to get mad at your kid for doing it too. You have to set a good example for them to follow.
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• Greece
15 Oct 06
thank you for your answer
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@callalily (165)
• United States
8 Oct 06
Here is how I handled the issue with my son (who is 25 yrs old now, and a nonsmoker) I started when he was about 6 or 7 years old talking to him about the dangers of smoking. I didn't harp on it all the time, but I kept the dialogue going as it was appropriate to mention it. Also, if you do not want you kids to smoke, please, lead them by example. Quit smoking! Do it for them!!!
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• Greece
15 Oct 06
thanks I hope this works for the children and the parents too. I hope it will work for me also
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@aquarian83 (1944)
• United States
8 Oct 06
not spank but wld definitely try and convince her against the side effects of smoking which i know will go against defa ears... but still we can try it out... spanking wont help much as thn child wont listen to u ..
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• Greece
15 Oct 06
thank you for answering
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