What do u do when life has u down?

@cherhost (1072)
United States
December 7, 2006 12:27am CST
I am not trying to put anyone down here... but when life has you down and out what do u do? I mean I try ot fix it. I just went through a scary part of my life where I hated my husband we could not get along. It was terrible. We could not get along for more the n 5 mins. So I myself went to the Dr and asked if there was someone I can talk to. Needless to say I am getting help because I do see what our problem is and if he is not willing ot fix it then I know that I am trying if we do fail. But some people just want to end their lives. I know that this is something that is sensitive. But why on earth would you want to just give up? I always thought that was just a way out... you learn from things that happen in your life... everyday is a joy on earth. I know some people are different then me and they see it the other way. But I just want to undertand! Enlighten me please!!!
4 responses
lucy02
@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Good for you! You're on the right track. I also suffer from depression and I tend to withdraw from the world. Eventually i have to come out and face everything but my first instinct is to just be alone and hide.
cherhost
@cherhost (1072)
• United States
7 Dec 06
ok so i see... you are a runner??? i do that too! i call it a runner because i always find a way out of problems.
maddog108
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
7 Dec 06
i suffer from depresion and at times it gets bad i take time out and have some me time it helps in a big way
cherhost
@cherhost (1072)
• United States
7 Dec 06
now do u really want to end it? i just want to know... i am dealing with it here and i do not know how to handle it. and it is always great for some me time! thumbs up.
ru88en
@ru88en (2997)
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
I stop, I'd like to be alone, all by myself. I pray. I examine things what goes wrong. I relax. I will think of all the good things that had happen to my life and think of how bless I am. With all these, I can let go to what happen and start another fresh life.
TerryZ
@TerryZ (22076)
• United States
7 Dec 06
When life has me down I am quiet for a couple of hours just thinking to myself. Then it hits me life is good I am here and should be thankful and there are people out there with much bigger problems.and then I say things always work out in some way or another.