Love as a paradox

Really? Have fun with love? Is that like saying... easy come, easy go? I think love is a very involved thing when its real, and it's something that should be cherished and nurtured. I think very few people know how to really love someone..

hey, you are getting me wrong, what im saying is walk and try love, not too fun and just PLAY with it. enjoy every relationship based on emotion and never fear and just see if its fit to you. haope its answer ur question

poor nuel she took your answer wrongly lol. yea jus like he said relax and have fun if you can truely enjoy love then you will be haveing fun with it. i have absolute fun everyday talking with my baby sister i love her sooooooo much more than anyone in the world ,there isnt any pain or any fear i wouldnt conquer to protect and keep her happy .enjoy every bit of love you make or give away,love is lifes greatest pleasure.

Huh, you know I never thought of it in that terms. I suppose because I don't have any children of my own, although.. my oldest sister does. I can completely see how that would fit with Mother Theresas words to a T.

I think everyone desires someone to love unconditionally. Even these people who cheat, lie, and cannot seem to be monogomous if their lives depended on it. However.. I think that stems from their fear of not being understood by someone, and fearing that they will never find someone completely compatable. In order to avoid heartache and whatnot, drama... I guess, they float from person to person. Creating heartache for others. I have had a lot of bad relationships, and this quote opened my eyes to the fact that I have a TON of amazing friends that love me and would do anything for me. Including some amazing guy friends that really do love me for who I am. It's an amazing thing.. when you get to the end of your rope and you realize that everything you want and desire is right there in front of your eyes.

Her words are really beautiful and have so much meaning to them, and can be analyzed in so many ways. I think love is supposed to hurt.. in a way. If it didn't hurt to some extent, at some point.. how would we ever know what real love was? I was in love once but I didn't realize it until after the fact... I always said "I love you", and mean it.. but it wasnt until after he was out of my life that I realized I really loved him and how it felt to really love someone. I wish you the best of luck, my parents are going through a very hard time after 26 years of marriage and it's the hardest thing I've ever seen my father go through. It's opened up so many emotions for him and I have seen sides of him I never thought existed. All I can say to you is to know that you have loved as much as you possibly could and to know that you gave your all is all we can ever really feel secure with in life. Keep your chin up! Everyone has rough patches, and sometimes they last longer than others.. but in the end, things really do work out the way they are meant to be!