Is it necessary to get married ?
By pramodthakur
@pramodthakur (2365)
India
31 responses
@jillann (779)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
I don't getting married is necessary. Because if it becomes a necessity it would create pressure for a person to find a partner. Getting married should be done freely, out of fate. Yes, it may be lonely to end up single for life but you wouldn't make yourself happy if you spend the rest of your life with someone you don't even love. Get married because you want to be with the person and because both of you make each other feel happy, wanted and loved.
@amber81 (288)
• United States
14 Dec 06
I dont think its Necessary to get married , Its not a HAVE to type thing. But however when you meet the right person for you then your going to wont to get married to her cause you wont ever want her to go ANYWHERE or be with ANYONE else your going to want the reasureance that shes married to you and not anyone else
:) Its a awesome feeling even as a woman lol... Good question though!
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@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
15 Dec 06
Thanks for your views in positive way. You were at 18 yesterday, now u r at 81. Good, keep it up!!!
@ikinta (1236)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 06
i am a bachelor too.i think it is necessary.first of all i love kids and i want to have a family of my own.it is a big responsibility that i crave.also i need someone who always be there by my side to support me in good times and bad times.i know there are a lot of fun of being single.but when i am ready i will get married.
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
14 Dec 06
Good, thanks for your views. God bless you happy marriage life.
@cheenlly (3476)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
i think everyone has to go through that unless you choose to be single forever. Everyone will come to that point. personally i would like to get married. It will happen once in your lifetime and im looking forward to that.I would like to have my own family.
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@givemechance (3794)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
yes i think this is necessarry to me. I want to live like a normally people.
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
12 Dec 06
Those who are unmarried, are also normal people. Only few are frustrated.
@achyuta (2851)
• United States
14 Dec 06
For females marriage is compulsory. For males unless one is in the renounced order of life and preaching about the glories of Lord then also marriage is compulsory. Men and Women are supposed to be contented in each other and remember and praise the Lord. :)
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
14 Dec 06
Thanks Achyuta, God has made man and woman to carry on the generation, so it is necessary also.
@vishnukompella836 (160)
• India
11 Dec 06
hi as a bachelor some guys want to marry as early a posible and ,some guys are humourous and they wnat to marry after they have a proper settlement.
another group is there ,these people will haye ladies and they try to make other people not to marry others and they will make a bad remark by explaing how the things after will appear to them.
so the marriage will depend uponthe person u are.
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
12 Dec 06
I do not hate any lady in the world, as they are/will be a mother of someone of us. When I see the opinion is not matching, just I say bye.
@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
26 Dec 06
Getting married may not be necessary, what is important is being with someone, a long lasting relationship without marriage is just as good even with kids and all.. being single forever (not married and alone) is not a healthy thing for most people both emotionally and physically.
@clarah_cille (654)
• Philippines
30 Apr 07
of course you are not forced to get married. it should be your free will and because you love the person if ever you will get married. everything has a reason and if you have no reason to get married, then why would you forced yourself?
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
4 May 07
No I am not forcing anybody to marry. This is just to the opinions of my friend.
@cyrile07 (236)
• Philippines
4 May 07
no its not really necessary, but if you want committment and if you really want to have a family of your own then why not? right? as long as your happy of what you are now.. if your happy being single then go , if your more than happy to have a family then get married :) one thing for sure marriage is a mess a learning process and a merry go round ride :)
@Swtrose (3385)
• Canada
30 Apr 07
If you're happy being single then no it is not necessary to get married. Even if you are in a committed relationship it may not be really necessary. Marriage unites a man and woman as husband and wife. People marry for a number of reasons and I guess you have to ask yourself if marriage is something for you.
@mommy20212004 (350)
• United States
12 May 07
I think getting married or not is each individual persons choice. There isn't one right or wrong answer; its about making a choice that is best for you. If you are happy and don't feel the need to get married, then don't. It's better to follow what your heart tells you, rather than give in to what someone else wants and ending up in divorce court.
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
4 May 07
I think it is not necessary to get married, but my bf wants to marry me. Because it is not allowed in our country that people can't live together if they are not couple. We love each other, so i dont care of marriage. The law says that you can get a protection if you are married. What kind of protection? It is nothing but money, you have share your common property with your wife/husband.
It maybe useful for those people who have no jobs. Sometimes the law can save a marriage(not love). In some counties, people will laugh someone who divorces his/her partner. So even they dont love each other, they have to live together.
@niharikadacoolest2 (468)
• India
4 May 07
I don't think you should marry for just marrying. Keep a good valid reason before marriage. For most of the people it is just attraction and for others it just to share their burden onto others shoulders. Really marriage is not necessary until you are so much towards attraction or financial burdened. Hope you don't have both