What would you do in my situation?

New Zealand
September 17, 2006 10:33pm CST
i have been friends with this guy since i was 12, i was totally infactuated with him and then i started to go out with him about 3 years ago, we recently broke up bout 4 months ago because he takes all his anger out on me and the way he speaks to me was mos tof the time in a real angry tone, he always says he loves me but never showed it and to me that means more than words, anyway so we have been trying to sort it out for 4 months, he has changed a little bit (sent me flowers twice at work) but still i think to myself alot is it worth it am i wasting my time you know. I have recently trained to be a flight attendent and really want to be flying by next year but i know he will hold me back, i love him so so much and most of the time he is an absolute hun towards me but i just keep thinking wha if there is better out there!!!!! WHAT DO YOU THINK?
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4 responses
• United States
20 Mar 07
If he's really that much of a hun, he'll be doing everything to help you find your wings, hon, not hold you back!
@blesse (69)
• India
18 Sep 06
Feeling of love + moment of sharing + small small carings + stupid fights + shoulder 2 Cry + 2b to gether in Pain = creates a miracle called "FRIEND". thats i believe.so be cool.
• United States
18 Sep 06
Go ahead and build your career. If it is meant to be, it will. Some time apart while he sorts out his life is ok and probablly necessary.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
18 Sep 06
You should go live out your dreams. If he is Mr. Right you will be able to keep a relationship with him and be able to be a flight attendant. Have fun before you settle down!