Would you Marry Someone You Dont Know But Your Parents Picked for YOu??
By paayal123
@paayal123 (43)
India
December 7, 2006 3:52am CST
Would you Marry Someone You Dont Know But Your Parents Picked for YOu??
i cant do this.. i mean how can u marry someone u dont know..its a matter of lifetime..
6 responses
@Kaorin (756)
• Australia
7 Dec 06
Personally no, I could never allow myself to be set in a forced relationship for the sake of making my parents happy. You need to know your partnet, love your partner, and know that this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. Your parents cannot decide this kind of stuff for you...
I know that there are social and cultural practices when it comes to arranged marriages, and I know that some people do not have a choice, but I simply could NOT do this, even if it meant dishonoring my family. I believe greatly in personal choice and freedom. Arranged marriages seem like opression.
@paayal123 (43)
• India
7 Dec 06
i agree with u..but in country like india,,mostly parents decide abt girls marriage,,sometimes even girl isnt given chance to decide..what can be done abt that..gilrs r so shy here that they cant talk suh things infront of their parents
@manish_rinki (185)
• India
7 Dec 06
no. my parent will never do this. they know that i like someone else..
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
7 Dec 06
first i will meet her, talk her, try to know her opinion then only decide.
