I find I love my teacher, I have nobody to tell, I fell depressed
By juejiang
@juejiang (15)
Australia
December 7, 2006 5:13am CST
My teacher is ten years older than me, not handsome at all. He has got married and he gets different skin colour from me.
It seems nothing attractive to me, but I think I love him. I have tried to avoid thinking about this because I know it is impossible, but I failed. I don't know what I can do to get rid of this feeling. I felt depressed these days. I think I can accept everything happens on me, but I really don't know how to deal with the feelings making me scared. Please help me.please
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5 responses
@kittykatzz (1132)
• United States
7 Dec 06
move on honey,, chalk it up to a teenage crush and learn to live with it,, you need to act like an adult with this matter and no matter how hard it is you NEED to not act on this.. think of it this way.. even if you experienced something with this man.. though it may seem wonderful to you,.it would ruin his life.. inEVERY WAY POSSIBLE.. he could lose his wife, his children, his career, and his friends.. now think carefully ..if you think your in love with this man.. do you really want to do that to him?.. dont be selfish.. move on, it should never happen in reality
@sanzi1201 (644)
• China
23 May 08
You sholdn't think about too much.Your relation of you is student and teacher.You should study very hard.I believe that you will meet a boyfriend ,but he is not your teacher.
@jagdishrajan (189)
• India
7 Dec 06
Time is the best healer. Wait,, you will forget him after some time.
@anonymili (3138)
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23 Apr 08
It is common for people to have crushes on teachers or older people but it's what you do about it that matters. The guy is married and as such you definitely should not be the person to hurt his marriage. I don't know if he had feelings towards you but anything you do to act on your feelings you are jeopardising his marriage and his career and possibly his freedom (I don't know how old you are but if you're underage and there's any evidence that he did anything to encourage your behaviour or feelings towards him he could be arrested). Well I think you posted this dicussion a year or so ago and hopefully you've matured since then and moved on, or I can only hope you have. There are single guys out there of your own age who are available and you should set your sights on them and avoid married men at all costs.
@triptadasgupta (900)
• India
23 May 08
well friend...i know and we all know that love is not only blind but also deaf as well.the phase through which you are going through is baby love and i am sure that with the passage of time you will come over it.Try to be mature and look at the wider aspect also.
all the best....
have a nice day....
