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I just started dating an old friend of mine, and things are going great. He is a great guy, very sweet and kind to everyone, and he takes wonderful care of me. We have so much fun together, and the chemistry is sooo good. However, i do have one problem (dont we all) He mentions how hot other girls are, in passing and usually when his buddies are around. Like an 'oh man, she is so hot!' or 'she has fine (insert whatever here)' Ive never dated a guy who said that stuff in front of me. Yes, i know men will say it, but i dont want to hear it! The thing is, he is oblivious. I am fully aware that a guy could do this to make the girl jealous or insecure, but he is really unaware. Also, sometimes he will mention an old girl (space) friend, like the one girl who went down on him at a party. I dont want to meet her!!! But she hangs out with his group and im afraid it will eventually happen. I know they never dated, but i dont want to be nice to her, i dont even want to see her. so here are my questions: should i have to put up with his comments about other women in front of me? how do i nicely tell him, getting the point across but not being too weird or posessive? (we just started dating) its just very offensive to me, and i wish he would be a bit more considerate.