ARRANGED MARRIAGE OR LOVE MARRIAGE?

India
December 7, 2006 11:24am CST
It is said that marriages are made at heaven. Love marriages and arranged marriages are good. But i think arranged-love marriages are better. You will come to know more of the person after it is arranged and then fall in love..As simple as that. Infact you will get more information about the partner from reliable sources - parents.Decision taking is also easier!So no tensions regarding approval from parents. What do you all think??
5 responses
@JashleyB (1441)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Um, I think it should be about love. But I don't think you should just go falling in love with the first guy you meet either. Take your time, see how he is. Get your parents advice and if all of that is good then if you fall in love you can get married. Arranged marriages are very awkward and annoying...
• India
10 Dec 06
You see earlier arranged marriages were like you said.. awkward as parents will just be deciding.. but now with changing times parents are more friendly with the children and they will know their likes and dislikes and they wont force their decision on you na??
@kk_84in (1686)
• India
7 Dec 06
I will vote for Arranged Love marriage. Is it ok?
• India
10 Dec 06
ya great...
• Bangladesh
7 Dec 06
i like arranged.
• India
10 Dec 06
mmm ok.. its more welcome to parents na??
• India
7 Dec 06
yes i agree with you that arrange marriage is much better than love..... as facts also says that love marriaged couples are more diviorcee.......
• India
10 Dec 06
i am with "arranged love " marriage... tats u fall in love long before marriage with the would-be, selected by your parents.. Now a days parents are very free and they will always hear our likes and dislikes .. rite???
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
7 Jan 08
Yes thats true and thats why I choose a love marriage. For me, I would choose to a love marriage. I would choose this because I believe that having a love to the person who you marry will bring a good harmony to your relationship and it is not hard to be him/her for the rest of your life.