what should i do?? happily married but falling for my ex all over again..
By zoewiles
@zoewiles (44)
United States
7 responses
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
7 Dec 06
You have to do what you can to save your marriage. If you say you are falling for your ex, chances are, things aren't great with your husband. You have to make a decision about who you want to be with. If you want your husband, cut all ties with your ex. If you want your ex, have the decency to end it with your husband first. How did you get yourself into this position? When I got married, I never saw my ex again out of respect for my husband and my marriage.
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@zoewiles (44)
• United States
7 Dec 06
well i wish it was that easy for me.. my first daughter is my ex daughter.. he tries everything to see her just so he can see me.. he is a nutcase... i just dont want to go through all the bullshit i went through with him.. i may say im falling for him but i know im not i think im scared that he is going to try something.. i dunno if im making any sense to you... but yeah.. thank you so much for your advice... Zoe
@jarsofclay (210)
• United States
7 Dec 06
If your happily married you wouldnt be falling for your ex...its an oxymoron. marriage consists of devotion and blindness towards any other person that is not your spouse. If you really Love your husband ..cut your feelings off block out any signals your ex is trying to give you ..cus yeah he is probably trying to swoon you into an affair.
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@certified_alice (1854)
• Philippines
7 Dec 06
if you're happily married now avoid your ex. better to do it than be sorry later. don't risk your feelings again and fall in love with your ex because that could ruin your married life so better to avoid him before your husband knows it. goodluck and godbless!
@honeybfly83 (1021)
• United States
7 Dec 06
If you love your husband then you need to break all contact with your ex.
@shywolf (4514)
• United States
4 Jan 07
Umm.. I hate to say this, but if you are truly _happily_ married then I'm not sure why you would be looking elsewhere. I can understand having little crushes or something, like for a celebrity or something, but falling for your ex when you are happily married? I hope that things have resolved themselves since the time that you first posted this. I do not mean to sound harsh in any way! ^_^ I just think that you should stay with your husband if you are truly happy. There is no need to complicate matters by returning to someone who apparently wasn't right for you in the first place, or else why would you have left them? Anyway, my apologies if I sound strong here.. I really do not mean to. ^_^
