Hospital Mix Up
By skyblade
@skyblade (482)
United States
2 responses
@dhicks30 (1948)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I would keep the baby I have now. But I would keep intouch with the other baby. I would want to see him as often that I could. But most of the time the only way you find out that there was a mix up, is if something happens to one of the baby, sick ,needs blood,or worse.
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@cloudwatcher (6861)
• Australia
9 Feb 07
This is a hypothetical which I don't think we can really answer unless we are faced with the situation, but my basic instinct is that I would keep the child I have.
If I have nurtured that child for a yeaqr, that child is mine, regardless of any other factor. I have loved that child and would give anything for him/her. There is no way I could give him up.
Part of me would also yearn for the child I gave birth to, but I could not deprive the one who has mothered that child. If possible, I would want the two families to be closely connected and for each to be honorary aunts and uncles for the children.
The only problem I see is if one child was physically or mentally incapacitated and the other parent wanted an exchange. This could be a real problem.