Anybody has been gang raped here ?
By demonaz
@demonaz (211)
Mauritius
December 7, 2006 4:11pm CST
Who has been gang raped in her life. What was it like ?
I have a friend whoi recently confessed to me that she has been gang raped and she's desperate and afraid everytime she is alone.
1 response
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
7 Dec 06
I'm not trying to start anything here, but that's a pretty personal and potentially triggering question to ask on a public forum. Most rape victims are really uncomfortable talking about their experiences and just the word 'rape' or discussions about it can have a deep mental and emotional effect on them.
If your really curious about people's reactions to these things, there are specific forums where people discuss their own stories of rape survival. Maybe you ought to look into those?
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
7 Dec 06
It is good to talk about it, but to talk about it in a safe and controlled environment. I've seen people who admit to being raped in public forums have people come and say things like 'there's no such thing, you were asking for it' and 'ha-ha, serves you right you dirty h0r' and things like that.
The topic doesn't offend me, but I've done work with rape victims - it was part of one of my criminal psychology/enforcement of justice courses in college - and there are so many guidelines to discussing rape so as not to upset or make the victim feel uncomfortable - even years after the rape has taken place. It just kind of makes me twitchy, because I've seen so many victims degraded and berated on the internet outside of safe places.
