Help!!! I don't know what to do!!!

@fotychic (318)
United States
December 7, 2006 5:55pm CST
My friend has been dating this guy on and off for about six months. Well, the first time that they broke up, it was because he cheated on her! I told her that she shouldn't take him back, but she did. So, her boyfriend called her drunk one night, and told her that he wasn't really all that sure about thier relationship. Well, my friend went all defensive, and told him that she could do so much better than him (which is true!). So, fast forward about a week. He emailed her and told her that he was going to get married to this girl that my friend introduced him to! This girl totally stabbed her in the back! I am having a really hard time comforting my friend, because she totally never should have taken him back in the first place! So, what should I say to make her feel better? Or at least help her through the massive pain that she is feeling? Please help!
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nishanity
@nishanity (1650)
• India
8 Dec 06
its sad dear... i really wish i knew y some ppl are this bad... not just guys,even some gals act like this... its really heart-breaking well try to make ur pal realise that her life is so much more precious and valuable to hav it shared wid some loser!! tell her its good that things turned out this way.. i mean its good he did this now, rather than him doing this aftr they got married(if they were ever planning to do so) tell her thr r many fish in the sea... life doesnt end here be wid her its the best thing u can do in comforting her... and help her thru this good luck!! hope she feels better soon
fotychic
@fotychic (318)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Thanks for your help! And it is true that she is better off finging out that he is a jerk now. I just wish that it had ended on better circumstances. I hate to see her being hurt like this.
deebomb
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
7 Dec 06
Really all you can do is be there for her. Be a shoulder for her to cry on a.d have an ear ready for listening.
fotychic
@fotychic (318)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Thanks. I hope that she knows that I will always be here to listen to her!
Cortney
@Cortney (3980)
• United States
7 Dec 06
there really is not much that you can say to make her feel better.. just be there to comfort her. Just let her know that she is better off without him.
fotychic
@fotychic (318)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Thanks. I am trying to be there for her, but right now, I think she just wants to be alone more than anything.
sarah22
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
8 Dec 06
she should move on as if the relationship was not working to begin then its was never ment to be. as she told him, she can find better, then she should and prove to him and of course herself that she desurves better than him. go out and meet new people together and see how she feels. bets of luck to her