Why Do You Live Where You Live?

Water Tower in my town - Water Tower in my town
@ossie16d (11821)
Australia
December 7, 2006 7:24pm CST
WHY I LIVE WHERE I LIVE. I am a little bit nomadic but our home base is south western New South Wales, Australia. When we aren’t travelling our base is a rural area, on a farm that our son managed before he went overseas. This is why we made his place our base. We can go there to check everything he owns is okay and still here. In addition we can air the place out and give is a dust and clean from time to time. The neighbours know when we aren’t there so they drive past from time to time just to check that the place is secure and the vehicles haven’t been moved. If they see a light on and don’t know we are visiting, they will come over to make sure as well even though it is about a 5km drive down dirt tracks. The nearest town is 20kms away, has a population of just 600 people and they are very friendly. They know our son and even though they don’t know my husband and I well, they always talk to us and ask after our son plus they hold the mail when we are away and when we are returning I just give them a call and they deliver it. This is a very community minded district where people look out for each other, shop in the small town for many things rather than going into the larger cities. The shops in return keep their prices as low as possible and offer really great service to their customers. The whole community supports any activity organised which will bring a benefit to the town. Those are some of the reasons why I live where I live. :) Tell us something about the town and area plus why do you live where you live.
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
We have moved from the city to a small township a bit further out, it is a half an acre block, and my hubby built a lovely home on it! Since we moved here 4 years ago this Christmas it has grown quite a bit, but the people are friendly and we only have a little general store. Our dog has room to move and he barks along with all the other dogs but there is still enough distance between us all. Will be hard to move back to town in the near future though!
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It certainly would be hard to move back into the suburbs after enjoying the peace of a small town, generally where everyone knows everyone else. It is a shame that you have to move from where you are happy and comfortable, but sometimes for a variety of reasons we have to make these tough decisions. Thanks for reading and responding caramello. :)
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@caribe (2465)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Purisima - A typical Purisima scene
I live in Masaya, Nicaragua, which is the birthplace of my husband. We met and married in the U.S. After a while we both were longing for a laid-back, slower paced life. We first considered Costa Rica but after visiting there and Nicaragua I felt that Costa Rica was beginning to have the "rush, rush" fever that I came from in the U.S. My husband has family in both countries and I decided that even though there is a little more risk in Nicaragua, I preferred it because it isn't over run with tourists and costs about half as much to live as Costa Rica and it is as beautiful as Costa Rica. This will be my second Christmas here. The children living here are out of school for the whole month of December for the holidays. There are special holidays many different days in December. In fact today is a holiday. It is Purisima. There are scenes set up in many houses today where people, especially children line up for blocks to say a prayer and the host give them a little snack for coming. They will get in line after line to do this over and over again tonight. It is quite interesting to watch.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
Sounds like you do have a great life and place to live caribe, despite the risks involved in your choice of country. It is great that the children can be with you for the holidays, particularly special ones, and they have the benefit of living in a different country and seeing some different cultures. Purisima sounds interesting, and I am sure that the children will appreciate all that they are given. Thanks very much for sharing this with us. :)
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• Costa Rica
12 Dec 06
i live in costa rica and i live with my uncle and my dad. i miss my family lol. hehe. bec. we are doing business here
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
12 Dec 06
Thanks very much for responding, and a business is a good reason to be in any place. :)
@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
I think that i am living where i live bcuz may Parents live here. They do n't belong to Faisalabad{ my city] but first of all, my Dad came here for bussiness and after marraige my Mom too came here and then mine elder brothers and me born in Faisalabad. Every basic need of life is available in my city and i cann't leave my city now bcuz the passion of love automatically takes place for that place where we live for long time. Clock Tower of my city resembles Clock Tower of London and the secone biggest university of Asia, Agriculture Universty of Pakistan, Faisalabad is in my city. If i go for school trips on other cities and visit my uncles and aunts in other cities then i like to go back to my own city as soon as possible.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It sounds like you have a real affinity for your town Faisalabad and thanks for sharing that with us. I think it is good that we are happy living in the town where we do live, because without the happiness there is nothing much to life. Thanks for sharing the information about Faisalabad sweetie88.
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@sweetie88 (4556)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
U r most welcome and i am sure that u too love the place where u r living. Its natural.
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@_hope_ (3902)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
Hi there again ossie good to see you .I live in a small mining town in western N.S.W. My hubby is now in the mining industry but have been here going on 27 yrs, i love the place except the isolation .It has been a great place for the kids to grow up in they have freedom here where if we were in a larger centre it would be considerably restricted . The nearest major shopping centre and better medical services are a good three hrs drive away .But life in the country is great and the kids have thrived .
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
I think that sometimes we make those choices on where we should live with the children in mind. I know that we did just that _hope_ because where we lived for 25 years is not where our base now is. The downside of course is the lack of choices with regard to medical services, but on the whole the good outweights those slight disadvantages. No, I will not guess where you are living, but think I could come to a conclusion fairly quickly. Thanks very much for your contribution to the discussion by sharing this with us. :)
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
10 Mar 07
You have best response for this discussion hope. :)
@peizli (1000)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
I am originally from London, I immigrated out here 14 years ago, wow where did that go! I reside in Melbourne, nothing extra special, but its nice and local to everything I need. I love being near the beach, thats special for me. Not sure I could live in a rural area, too use to the bustle of the city. But coming from London I find Melbourne quite small!
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It is interesting how some people cannot live in the city and others cannot live in the country. I personally do not like the city, because of the noise and bustle whereas you are the opposite peizli. LOL I imagine that coming from London, you would find Melbourne small and if you were to return to London now you would notice an even greater difference. Thanks for reading and responding to the discussion peizli. :)
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@wenfri (1185)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
I live in a small community in Northern Ontario Canada. Population 1500 Like I said small. Lake Superior is on one side of us and all forest on the other. Our main industry is the railroad (CPR) and pulp and paper mill. She we live in the middle of nowhere. 3 hours to a big city. Can't even buy socks or underwear here LOL The reason I live here is the outdoors. It takes all of 5 minutes to get to water for fishing, swimming (in summer of course) or boating. We camp, snowmobile, hike, hunt and well anything that has to dowith outdoors. Yes I love being outside specially in the summer. The scenery is georgeous with lots of hills, lakes and rivers. Even walking I go from one end of town to the other in 15 minutes. People are super friendly even to strangers. Wendy
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
What a lovely place your area sounds like Wendy, and I am sure that many will envy you the wonderful life that you must live. Maybe one day you will post some photos here in myLot so we can see how lovely it is. How wonderful it must be to literally walk out the door and almost fall into the water for fishing, swimming and boating. Thanks very much for sharing this with us in your response. :)
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@tisha4you (278)
• United States
8 Dec 06
i am in USA ..washhington state... i am enjoying here my each and every moment with my husband.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
Very good, and are you living in Washington State permanently? Is there anything special that you enjoy doing there?
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• United States
8 Dec 06
Honestly...Rent is cheap and we can have dogs. Also it is located in the country a bit so its quiet. We only pay $300 for the rent. 3 bedroom! We also have 3 dogs. We cant find any in town where we can have dogs! Espically Saints. We are looking to buy a house though.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
I think that it can be a problem finding rental accommodation when you have pets but sadly some tenants are not so considerate when allowing pets inside the house etc, so now landlords are more selective. What town and state do you live in and can you tell us a little about your town?
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• United States
8 Dec 06
We live in the south western part of the United States of America. It is all desert and mountains out here. Except for beastly hot summers, the spring, fall, and winter is beautiful, perfect weather. I like it out here, as it isn't over populated with people yet. We have land, and wild donkeys and coyotees cross our property. It is peaceful and beautiful.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It sounds like you have your own little piece of heaven where you are living, and that is so important. I imagine that the peace makes it all that much more beautiful. Thanks very much for sharing this with us. :)
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@caraj444 (1075)
• Canada
8 Dec 06
I live where i live only because its where most of my family lives. I live in a small town in ontario and my husband and i only moved back there from Alberta (where i met him) after my daughter was six months old, most of my family lives within about 15 minutes of us and after i had my baby i wanted to be close to my family again so she could get to know all of them. While its certainly nice to be close to them and have all the help from them and get to see them all the time if they didnt all live in the same area i would definetly be living in Alberta again.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It must be wonderful to have your family so close so that she can get to know them all and spend time with them as she grows up. Do you miss Alberta at all, or have you settled right back into your own small town? Is there anything special about your town, other than your family living close that is? :)
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
9 Dec 06
Actually tonight we were looking at a map of Canada when our son was explaining to friends about where he had been this past year. At the time I noticed Alberta, which was interesting as you come from there. Our son had just returned home after spending most of this year in Canada. :)
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@pinkdelyt (192)
• Philippines
8 Dec 06
i live here because this is where my family is..
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
What town and country are you from? Please tell us a little about your town.
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• United States
8 Dec 06
I live where i live because the rent is cheap,you can survive on a lomited income,and the people are nicer.i am originally from the city and the rent is overpriced,people are rude and you could not make it on a set income.thats why i moved to the country 1800 miles away the only thing is i miss is my family.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It is sometimes difficult being away from family, and particularly when it is a considerable distance. However, whilst your new friends cannot replace your family, I am sure that they support and welcome you. It is better sometimes to live without family near, if it means that you can have a better quality of life by being further apart. Thanks for sharing this with us, and for responding.:)
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@Trevan82 (67)
• Sweden
8 Dec 06
I live in Sweden 20km from Stockholm our capital. Me and my wife live in a 59 square meter apt. We are looking at houses right now and will move by spring or summer. We would like to live at the countryside on a small farm with stabbles and at least 2000 square meters of land. Thats our dream.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
It sounds wonderful and I hope that you achieve your dream of moving to the countryside and getting your small farm. It is so very different in some countries when compared to Australia, landwise that is. Do you want to stay living near Stockholm, or will you be moving to another area? Thanks very much for your response. :)
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
Then hopefully everything will work out for you - living in the countryside with some land plus still staying near those special people in your life. Thanks. :)
• Sweden
8 Dec 06
I think we will be staying in this area becouse our friends and family all live here.
@Bayleigh (141)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Im in Southern Illinois, 6,448 people, 2 stop lights, railways, mostly locally owned shops other than Kroger, Wal-Mart, McDonalds and things like that. We live here because my husbands job is here, he trains race horses and we are home of the World Trotting Derby. Its pretty much everyone knows everyone here, all the cops went to highschool together, and empty parking lots are the hangouts for the kids during the summer time. Im more used to the city but now that I have been here for 2yrs, its nice. Its quiet, there is not a lot of violence or law breaking. Most of the residence either work for the city or have been working at local plants or mines all thier lives. Overall I like it, I would like anywhere I can live my life with my husband, he makes it all worth while.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
9 Dec 06
It sounds like a great place to live to me, and places like this are not the norm these days. You are truly blessed with living where you do live I think. Thanks for contributing to the discussion and providing us with a little insight to where you live. :)
@Bayleigh (141)
• United States
8 Dec 06
My Town - Where I live.
my picture didnt post the first time! haha Heres where I live :-)
@maddog108 (3435)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
i live with my mum she is getting old and need a little help if that wasnt the case i wouldnt be here id be out in a contry town
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
8 Dec 06
Thanks but can you tell us something about where you live, i.e. your town/suburb. Thank you.
• India
8 Dec 06
As it had been descriptive n asked where u stay n why u stay is so simple that i stay in city n live for the wornderful life is given by God
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@gifana (4833)
• Portugal
29 Dec 06
Tagus River at Belem - Photo taken from a ferry on the Tagus River in Portugal of the Discoveries Monument in Belem, between Lisbon and Oeiras, the town where I live.
I live in Portugal in a small Vila (equivalent to a town) just 20km from its capital city Lisbon. I first came here working for a firm with its hqs in Paris. I represented Spain and Portugal. I was prepared to live in Madrid because I spoke fluent Spanish and very little Portuguese. But when I saw the Costa do Sol I changed my mine. The job didn't work out and I had to go back to the States. When I left here a Portuguese family that I had become very close to tried to get me to stay but I said I had to go back and look for work as my pension wasn't all that great. However, back in the boonies of Maine I got so bored I called to see if the invitation was still open. Shortly thereafter I pulled up roots and returned and have never looked back. From my veranda I can see the "Little Golden Gate Bridge" spannint the Tagus River in Lisbon and the Cristo Rei (small copy of the one in Rio de Janeiro) as well as the southern bank of the river. Directly in front is the Bujio Lighthouse which stands guard at the entrance of the Tagus Statuary and its guides ships coming in from the Atlantic. Can't find any pics that I have taken but will post them if I ever find them. The area where I live is considered a dormitory area. It is halfway between Lisbon and Cabo de Roca, the westernmost point of Europe about 30kms to the northwest. I stay here because of the climate, the people, the culture and the fantastic food. I guess everybody in the area knows who I am although they don't know me personally. I do have lots of friends young and old.....mostly young to keep my brain functioning properly. I share an apt I bought about 8 years after I returned. She's portuguese and very refined while I am a typical American crazy woman. She goes her way and I go mine but we do get together on occasions.....hehehehe.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
29 Dec 06
It certainly sounds like you have found your own little piece of heaven here on earth gifana. If only everyone could be so lucky but that these sorts of things don't just fall into our laps, because you worked for what you have plus made a deep and lasting impressions on your Portuguese friends who wanted you to stay. Congratulations on being able to live in such a wonderful place as you do, and it seems to me like it is only what you so richly deserve. :) Having someone share your apartment is great, as it does spread the costs a little but at the same time you are both independant people who both live your own life.
@oldboy46 (2129)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
We live where we live because this is where my partner was born and has lived most of her life .... all of it in this district ... but not all in the town. When we met she had a house already .... I was in the process of getting divorced and didn't want to live in my old town .... so we stayed here and then bought a small farmlet. Small town .... population of 1000 .... good doctor all the time ... small hospital ... old people's home ... senior citizens centre .... library ... visiting Dentist once a fortnight ... couple of Clubs ... couple of pubs ... 2 supermarkets, newsagent, butcher, bakery, fish & chip shop, pizza place, and heaps of stuff. We can walk to town from where our farmlet is .... it has most things and may be some stuff is a bit dearer but that is the price for living in a small town.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
17 Feb 07
It sounds like you have all the essentials in your town oldboy, and of course things will be a little dearer but you still have the convenience of a small town. Thanks for reading and responding to this discussion. :)
@gkrisiyer (393)
• India
21 Dec 06
I live in india because its my birthplace and my whole family lives here.this place is really cool and i dont think you would get some of the food you get here in any other part of the world.plus because of globalisation i get to taste food from everywhere else too.basically i live where i live because of the food that i get here which i wont enjoy in other countries.
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
There are many reasons why we live where we live, and you are right that with globalisation we can sample things from many countries. Australia has a very diverse culture, with people from many different backgrounds choosing to make their life here, so we do have authentic restautants from many different nations. It is good that you are happy in your own country, because generally if you aren't then you will possibly not be if you moved to a new country.
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@jal1948 (1359)
• India
21 Dec 06
without being disrespectful to my country`If i had a choice I would love to live in the usa or australia, as i had the oppoutunity to visit both the places.You get the best food for so little,and real money for the hours u putin,in India money is an illusion,it just vanishes before u can buy the bare necessities.long hours at work without overtime being paid.The malls just loot u under the guise of discounts,Credit cards and telephones are overbilled,the list is endless, Asfor support,fineas long as u have the money u'll get support.
@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
21 Dec 06
I believe we are lucky to live here in Australia, and cannot imagine living anywhere else actually. Yes, we do have good quality food here and much of it is actually grown and produced in our own country. It must be hard for other people in some countries, particularly if they have visited countries like mine. Good luck and maybe one day things will improve in India, although it will take time for that to happen.
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@freesoul (3021)
• Egypt
22 Dec 06
I may want to live somewhere else, not much chances to relocate though, sometimes you are stuck where you are but it's not really bad .
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@ossie16d (11821)
• Australia
22 Dec 06
This is true but you haven't told us why you live where you live.
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