when he loves you.... and you love HIM.

well, i think the secret to a good relationship! is good makeout!:P if your hot in the bedroom! nothing can come in the way!theres a wise saying that goes like this!"y waste time over someone who isnt wasting time on you"!!i think your friend is a great companion and if your bf makes you cry, its really not worth it.

Been there, done that. I was in love with a guy once whose best friend worshipped the ground I walked on. I still have letters from him. But since I loved my friend, I told him, "Michael, I love you like a brother, but you know my heart is with Jeff. I don't want to lose our friendship because you mean the world to me." To this day, even though it didn't work out with Jeff (THANK GOD!!), I know I could pick up the phone and my "big brother" would be there in a hearbeat. Actually, years later we tried to date but it was too weird. For the first time ever we had nothing to say to each other. The "dating" lasted about a day. hahaha, seriously. Michael was happily married last I heard and so am I. I guess what I am trying to say to you is be honest with your friend. That's the only thing you can do. Be honest and let the chips fall where they may. Good luck to you & keep us posted.

Emotions are heightened when someone instills pain in you. That's what psychology says - not me. I guess, that's the reason why you will always love your boyfriend more than your good friend. Boyfriends are meant not to understand you, to inflict pain on you and be demanding. That's why, I guess, we love our boyfriends more than our good friends?

It is often believe that the one who hurts you is the one who makes you happy. That's right, we can't dictate our hearts to feel for the one who we don't love.

I tell you what, you get used to anything or anyone when they are around you long enough. This seems to be the issue at hand. You are co-dependent of the situation, that's all. Never leave a relationship for someone else but your bf seems to be bad news for you anyway. You seem to have lost yourself and believe me girlfriend, there are different types of so-called love and not all of them feel good at all. You have the wrong stuff hon, so my suggestion to you is to wean yourself of this bf and work on yourself. Then decide what you want to do from there but take some time out for yourself, seems like you could definitely use it and you deserve it more than anybody. Until next time......

just think of d person who u want to spend the rest or ur life with. is it ur boyfriend or ur friend? i believe its easy to find a friend but its hard to find the one u truly love.. maybe u love ur friend yeah. but its not d type of love that u want to marry him and grow old with right? u follow ur heart dear.. analyuze ur feelings well before u decide.

well, then stick with your bf....it's the one that you love most that have the tendency to hurt you most as well. from the way you describe it, you are really in love with your bf. the other guy friend may appear to be like a dream comes true..but do you think it will be the same when 2 of you are in a relationship? that would be another ???? so if you really love your bf...try to be accept all his weakness and flaws and love him for who he is!

I think the feeeling is only infatuation. Love and infatuation is really different thing. Analyze your feeling so you wont get the wrong path and you will not hurt someone.

It is very difficult to explain and fail to understand what kind of love is this.

you love the first person too , if not , then you will never ever think for this discussion too , actually you have decided to leave your boyfriend who gives trouble but with candy words he gets you back, and at the other hand your friend is so caring .. and you loved to be in his company ... the only thing you want to know is what you have to do ... no body can tell you ,you have to decide it by yourself, see i can give you one advice just try to get HOW MUCH THEY RESPECT YOU, DO THEY HAVE CARE OF YOUR FEELINGS, PERSONA , UR SELF RESPECT,GRAVITY? i can guess the fist one will have the full respect , and your boy friend will not have any thing to do with it ... if so leave him .. he is not it for you ... comment it ......

My lover when love me then i feel a freedom and joy.

You justexpress youropinion to him and clarify the doughts what you have if you did not express he understand some way so do not delay just do it

why choose the guy who makes you cry?Open your eyes,sombody is there for you willing to give you all his love..it wont be hard loving him..

I also don't hv any solution...wht do I do... With whom I love...he don't understand my love...so wht to do???conflict....hhmmm

It is the most important for a person what he/she really want in the world.what do you really want? no one can make decision for you but yourself.

Best Friends (His/Her)are beutifull relationships.Bestfriends will help you if you had a problem to solve either it sad, happy etc.You must choose and make your own decicion.

i agree....

well, ur bf is ur bf and ur friend is just a friend

well i know how it feels.its better to be with people who love you, than to be with people you love.from your conversation it shows taht you like the good friend also.

I used to follow my hearts desire because it makes me happy. I'll never waste my time loving someone who don't deserves to be loved. It's stupidity.