have you ever been misunderstood and that too by your loved ones??

Oh yes, many times! In fact so many times that I have started to have doubts on my own sanity. I don’t have many loved ones, only my husband and son (coz I believe that you can’t actually share true love among very many people). They have never misunderstood me, thank God. But I have many people (friends and family) for whom I care a lot and on whom I depend a lot too. They are my responsibility in some way or the other and I try to do a lot for them, but in my own way. That’s when the confrontations occur. They would like me to do things according to their convenience (I guess everybody is so) and a lot of misunderstandings crop up within good intensions. And then, when I turn away from them, or they turn away from me, we all end up blaming each other. Sometimes the allegations are true, most of the times they are fabricated and illogical, childish whims and tantrums of insensible adults. We are all responsible, no use playing the blame-game.

Yes, I have had such experience once. It was with my aunt who was very close to my heart. I went through a sad phase and so did she. Eventually I recovered but things never became the way it used to be.

Not so far.But I like to be misunderstood by my loved ones for the fact that when they realize their fault the love they shower is worth all the trouble.

It is i totally agree with you My ex boyfriend and i broke up on a misunderstanding and that is what hurts the most

Yeah, it's really hard. I'm the middle child and I'm always the one who was blamed. It's really uneasy for me because I didn't have the fault at all. Well, I believe in KARMA.

Most of the times, I feel that I am mis-understood my my better half............need I tell more. Have a nice day!

No words to say this better. The worst thing in communication and I think it comes to humans only LOL

It's always happened with me lol.and I have often gotten told off or blanked or treated badly for something that was never my fault..So I understand what you mean and I know how you feel because I have been through it and I am quite fed up ofit happening..Now what I dois make myself less and less availlable to these kind of peopleso when they do see me it is a novelty and they don't get much of a chance to harrass me lol..

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I've been misunderstood in the past by a very small number of people - mainly friends and because I didn't class them as very close friends I was not too upset about it. Funnily enough they came back to me and apologised themselves years later when they realised it was their misunderstanding. I haven't had any such misunderstanding with family or very close friends (thank God) and hope I never do as I am deep down a very soft person and hate to think my words or actions (even by accident) could hurt people I know :)

Well it happens many times. It happened with me so many times .. that I can't even tell you .. It happened with my own family members, my boyfriend, my relatives .. oops but whatever it was .. I just hate the whole issue and curse myself for why it happened

I have been missunderstood and I also missunderstood and both of them are my loved ones and very close to me. I had few days with so much pain for these thngs and for waiting to set everything up in place again. I know how uch bad it is in any of those two cases and I never ever want it again to my life.

I had been misunderstood and I felt so bad about it.it's too painful,I'm wounded emotionally.