tell me the right thing to do!

Philippines
December 8, 2006 5:48am CST
i'm emilyn, two years married with my husband wayne. i met him when i was working in taiwan. we got along together fine. when i got pregnant, i came back here in the philippines. we got married then. at first, he frequently visit us here. but as time goes by, he seemed like changing a lot! right now, it's been a year over since he never come and visit. his phone calls were down from everyday to once a month. he said he's just so busy in work that's why he couldn't find time to do everything he does before. even on our daughter's birthday, he never showed up. whenever he would call, he never ask about me and our baby. he'll just call me to ask if i already receive the money. i often ask him what's his plan for us, but he never say a word. he sends money every month but it's not just money that we need! right now i don't have a job, and i find it hard to get one coz i'm only a high school grad. i really wanted to divorce him but i couldn't because i still need his financial support for our baby. and besides, it seems like he doesn't want divorce. i'm already confused with him coz he don't love me anymore, even our baby, he don't wanna divorce me, and yet he's still continuing what he's doing! what should i do?
1 response
@mkup30 (494)
• United States
8 Dec 06
That's easy to solve. You dont need him, just need his money. so get a divorce, he MUST pay you child support, he is still the father of the child. dont stay in a marriage just for the money! makes no sense! good luck!
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
yah, i also thought of that. but he's really different. he'll stop d monthly support if i do that.