is he married

Canada
September 18, 2006 12:36pm CST
i would like to no how i find out if the person i am seeing is married how do i go about this
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44 responses
@damonlady (574)
• Romania
23 Oct 06
let's see if i can help a little bit so if he is married: 1. he should have a wedding ring (if he remouved it he should have a mark) 2. if he doesn't have a mark on his finger he will usually touch that finger more often. 3. if u ask him directly and he say no but not looking into his eyes.. he might have a gf or a wife 4. if he doesn't sleep over yr place too many night he is married 5. if u don't know his phone number from his apartment he is married 6. if he ask u during yr conversation how u feel about a relation with married guys, he is married or has another type of commitment 7. if u don't meet him during the week-end he is married.. sunday is for family 8. if when he is at yr place he put his pants very carefull and not drop them around the house he is married (when he fix them.. he is carefull not to lose something from his pockets or to don't get a hair from u on his clothes) 9. if u don't know his friends.. drop him anyway if he is not married he is not into a serious relation ship anyway 10. if he doesn't talk about his ex gf he is married - he can't talk about his wife unless he is using the words "one of my ex" too many times well and i better stop:)) let me know if u wanna know more...i think it's enough for the moment
@J_peso (2430)
• United States
23 Oct 06
lol now i kno what not to do in orde rnot to arouse suspicion:)
@J_peso (2430)
• United States
23 Oct 06
lol that would be kinda kewl then u/we cud co author a book on that:))
• Romania
23 Oct 06
yeah.. but the truth is that there a lot of thing.. except that... i'll give u a list:))
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@SunnyDays (1070)
• Bahamas
18 Sep 06
Ask him for his home phone number, as him for his adress. If he just gives you a cell number and is not reachable in the evenings nor on the weekends you know what you are dealing with...
• United States
23 Oct 06
Yep, just ask him for the information and also ask if he is married.
@atulleo25 (484)
• India
19 Sep 06
You need to ask him few questions in rapid fire and just ask him to give an abslute quick reply. If he thinks then he must be lying to you. The questions goes like this: Do you love me? Do you really like me? Do you think I'm beautiful? What's your mother's name? whats your telephone number? What is your Date of birth? Whats your nick name ? What is your wife's name? --- if he reply on this one too then you will get your culprit.
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• United States
23 Oct 06
when you flat out ask a man, they can still lie their a$^ off..the address thing is the best way..if you have never been to his house, or you only see him at night, those are two good clues
@lizzyme (87)
• Nigeria
23 Oct 06
if he has a wide palm .joking, but seriously, if he asks u to marry him on your first date.
@jaitley (841)
• United States
23 Oct 06
By the looks on his face. if he looks happy, then unmarried otherwise he is married
@kids91911 (4363)
• United States
23 Oct 06
follow him and read his emails never leave his side when he is at the computer.
@amylou (127)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Not too be rude but couldn't you just ask him?? And if you don't trust him enough to be honest about that then why would you want to be with him in the first place???
• United States
23 Oct 06
Ask him, visit his house, ask to meet his friends and relatives and talk to them...
@SnIcKasS (1375)
• Israel
23 Oct 06
ask him, that's simple. or try asking him by a sneak, don't ask it directly... ask him about marridge, if he ever thought of getting married.. :)
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Ask him or ask a friend. Being involved with a married man always ends in heartache for someone. If you're having doubts, make sure before you go any farther with this guy.
• United States
23 Oct 06
just ask him and if he says yes then run run run!
@saphire539 (1639)
• United States
23 Oct 06
Just ask him and also for his home phone number,address and you could always follow him home 1 day and see if he gets greeted at the door by a wife or has any children playing outside his home.
• United States
23 Oct 06
Ask him if he is married. If he denies it and your still suspicious, follow him around one day, does he introduce you to his friends?
@baileym11 (887)
• United States
23 Oct 06
i would certainly ask
• Portugal
23 Oct 06
Invites him for a weekend of, if he says no twicw, you´ll know.
@disturbedgd (1819)
• South Africa
23 Oct 06
just ask him to be honest with you and then ask him
• United States
23 Oct 06
Public record through your county-all marriages and divorces are available for the public....if he is married get the hell away from him!
• United States
23 Oct 06
ask him or have someone else ask.
@LadyElektra (1078)
• Canada
23 Oct 06
well simple..if he never invites you to his place or to meet his parents...