my dad refuses to allow me to be wit the one i love
@xoRicanDyme3ox (638)
United States
December 8, 2006 8:22am CST
its not fair this is my situation, i am 16 and in love and my dad is makin this relationship sooo difficult for me to handle.. its not enough that my boyfriend lives an hour by car away from me, i cant see him ever because after a fight about 2 months back we broke up i cried my dad saw and he got mad for good and officially hates him, now of course were in love so we worked things out got back together and when i try to invite him over my dad right away says no gives me a huge speach bout hormones and how im to young and i fel horrible cuz my boyfriends family has yet to meet me and they are getin a little tired of my situation and i feel like theres nothing i can do,,, its jsut sooo frustrating and depresssing i dont know wat to do plz help out with my situation if you guys have any advice i need it so let me know ur thoughts
thanks
3 responses
@FrancyDafne (2047)
• Italy
28 Feb 07
Well, I can understand your regret.... you are very young and parents, generally speaking, worry about their sons and daughters.
To me you should explain to your father that it happens that teen agers sometimes fight, cry, break up and then be in love again. It's normal, he must not judge only for this things.
I have only an advice for you: speak to him. Convince him that your boyfriend is very important for you, that your love makes you happy. It will be very hard at first, but try to go on, don't become demoralized, I'm sure sooner or later your father will understand how this boy is important for you.
