What do you think?

@nidahali (446)
Pakistan
December 8, 2006 1:17pm CST
What you do think about the people judge you even before getting to know you? What do you feel like when this happens with you? I personally think that we should not judge people just on there appearance. Like a saying goes: "Never judge a book by it's cover" So why should we not do the same with humans, I mean give others a chance before assuming who, how and what they are.
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@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
8 Dec 06
Oh man, I'm judged just on how I look all the time. I wear all black, I wear heavy dark makeup, lots of heavy silver jewlery and I have tattoos. People always assume I'm some sort of criminal or something. Nothing could be further from the truth! It drives me nuts.
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• United States
8 Dec 06
It doesn't bother me so much what they think of me, just that they don't bother to get to know me once they've made their opinion. I want to be judged on my opinions and thoughts and actions rather then the clothes I wear!
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
I'm pretty sure they're giving up a good friend by not talking and befriending :) Btw where are you from? I'm from Pakistan.
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
Dude you should forget about what people think. Live you own life! People talk all the time so don't be bothered about them. In fact those people talk alot are insecure themselves so thats why they pick other people as victims.
• United States
8 Jan 07
i hate it when people do that. they have no idea who you really are and they look at you like they've already got you figured out. i feel bad for them. because they feel so low about themselves that they have to negatively judge someone else to make themselves look or feel better. i dont think we should judge by appearance or dress or anything. everyone deserves a chance becaue you just dont know what kind of person they really can be if you let them.
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
9 Jan 07
I totally agree with your point of view. We should discourage this trend and start treating people with respect. If you need to jugde someone then let it be on something solid that you can prove not because you don't like the way they dress, talk, walk or another thing... Non of these things matter.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
9 Dec 06
There are people who have been taken for a ride when they judge a person by looking at his dress, his style. Similarly there are people who lost the opportunity to have a decent, honest person, but as you said by judging wrongly, they loose him. Generally it requires great observation to judge a person, not in minutes,not in days.
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
10 Dec 06
You're so right. This is wxactly what I mean that people should judge others before getting to know them better.
• India
8 Dec 06
i think ur right...i agree with your thoughts
@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
Thanks dude :)
@ruby1459 (2600)
• United States
8 Dec 06
I met a lot of people who has judged me by my color and roots.I know it's not right at all to judge people by where she/he came from or color,country etc. Some people told me that I must speak funny because I am from asia(I am originally from Japan),When I was having a hard time speaking English lots of people told me that american hates people who cannot even understand English. I know where I lived was a middle of nowhere in Ohio state but it was just totally insane.
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
8 Dec 06
I'm really sorry to hear that people judge you like that. I'm sure you're a nice person inside-out!
• United States
8 Dec 06
everything that people project has nothing to do with you, it has to do with something inside of them. So if someone judges you badly before getting to know you it is more likely that they are unhappy or insecure people. In my humble opinion anyway.
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@nidahali (446)
• Pakistan
9 Dec 06
Exactly what I had in mind :)