Will you marry someone who love you more or you love more?

Canada
December 8, 2006 10:17pm CST
It is happy to meet the right person in the right time, but what if meet the right one in the wrong time or meet the wrong one in the right time? Love is always surprise me. If you can choose, who you will marry to? the one who love you more or the one who you love more? Why?
5 responses
kisrad
@kisrad (29)
• India
9 Dec 06
i will marry one who loved me.
shellyhuang
@shellyhuang (399)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
Thank you
Alexandria37
@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
9 Dec 06
Oh, that is a difficult one, but I don't think I could marry a person if he didn't love me as much as I love him. I have now been married for 38 years, and I think both my husband and myself love each other equally.
shellyhuang
@shellyhuang (399)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
It's great that to meet someone who you both love each other the same, so envious, hehe
zotopec
@zotopec (307)
• Pakistan
9 Dec 06
I have divorced my first wife and happily married again. Both of them love me more than I care to...and I feel I like it more, to be on the safer side. Dont know if confronted with such a choice what would I had chosen but it is so for the moment.
shellyhuang
@shellyhuang (399)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
Do most people want to be on the safer side? Is it kind of self protection? I feel so. I try to hide my true feelings just afraid to be hurt, but in deeply, I feel that's not enough
hahahaha
@hahahaha (11)
• China
9 Dec 06
i'll choose who love me more , i think these can made me more happier, if choose the one who you love more er you must fell tried at make him love you more!
shellyhuang
@shellyhuang (399)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
Thank you, either you are happy then it's good, hehe PS: I like your user name, hahahahaha
trenea7
@trenea7 (86)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Well, I tried marrying the one who loved me more. That's not enough to sustain you for the long haul. After 7 years, I had had enough. I got tired of him bending to my opinion all the time, doing whatever was necessary to make me happy. I realized after a while that I didn't want a puppy dog, I wanted a partner. I'm happily remarried now and I think that if you can determine that one partner loves the other more, than there is a problem in the relationship. Marriage is a partnership not a place to have your every need catered to while you do nothing in response.
shellyhuang
@shellyhuang (399)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
Thank you and your saying make me think more. My mom always want me to be with someone who loves me more so that I wouldn't get hurt, but as you say, marriage is a partnership which need responses from both sides, if not hurt by someone who loves me more, then I wouldn't feel love either