LOVE OR ARRANGED ???????/???
By Akshay7777
@Akshay7777 (286)
India
December 8, 2006 11:02pm CST
which type of marrige will u prefer and what do u think that will sustain better in future ????
9 responses
@pinkreen090690 (1)
• Malaysia
5 Sep 08
i agree with u..arranged mariage is not that bad. so many people live happily with their partner even though they married without knowing 2 each other and regardless love. the most important is ur heart. means if u sincere 2 accept him/her, who knows he/she would feel the same too. however, 4 me it's not wrong if u want to find ur true lover 1st. people should do some effort right!
@rapidfire (100)
• United States
29 May 07
i had an arranged marriage n u know any relation needs trust,love n faith ...without these roots the tree of marriage cannot survive never...both should care for each other not just the physical needs but emotional needs also it does not matter if it comes from a love marriage or an arranged
@selva_only4u (116)
• India
20 Dec 06
i would always prefer love marriages to be arranged at home...so this will be happy for both us and our parents
@ydnac22 (802)
• Philippines
16 Mar 07
of course i will choose love. I hate arranged marriage.Im wondering why there are parents who try to enterfer in their childs lovelife. They should be there just to GUIDE and give ADVICE to their kids if they know their kids are in the wrong track.They have no right to dictate who to choose.After all they will not be the one who will start a new family but their kids.I cant also imagine living with somebody without feeling inlove.ohhh thats a miserable thing i quess.
@areyoues8278 (113)
• Malaysia
16 Mar 07
love .. cuz i know my love better than the arrangement partner.. i will take a lot of time to know and to make myself comfortable with the arrange partner..
@killailla (1301)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
I am about to get married into a pakistani actually afghani family, out of the whole family, including 10 children of this generation, I will be the only love marriage and only non pakistani women married into the family. I am all for love marriages!
@arunkatari (98)
• India
9 Dec 06
hey i prefer for the arranged marriage.i dont mean it should be a blindly arranged i think both can understand each other by few meets .
@sanorita (58)
• India
15 Dec 06
love marriage ny day. its only in love marriage one has the options of deciding on a person, judging the person by goin around thm, knowing his/her bad qualities which r usual nattrs for break offs. while arnaged u hv less options to decide n judge. n once commited u hv to suffer a while bfr u wanna give it up. wherein in love one can easily leave a person with whom thy think isnt goin fyne n can get sm1 better. soo v generaly dnt make mistake in selecting our partner in love marriages whr in arranged ppl generaly tend to do tht.
