Love marriage Vs. Arrange marriage

India
December 9, 2006 2:07am CST
Which is better do u think??????I m confused..
5 responses
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
21 Dec 06
most of the comments I read here look they are not sure love or arranged. To me love is best but to be true love have to find your soul mate. took me 2 times but I found him had 42 1/2 good years together before he passed away Arranged marriages most time happen at birth and with the most richer familys to join forces or gain more land or something like that. What happens if you hate the peoson you are pledged to or they are in love with someone else?
• India
9 Dec 06
In both first point is that both like eachother. Otherwise it doesn't happen. In love marriage some great personal feeling of that particular person took very good part. But in arranged all the elders and family members shall think over the well being of the couple and that too as a well known persons about the nature of a bride or groom they can manage to get married with perfect suitable ones. Both marriages have failed some times, but it not meant that the whole factor failed. In arranged there is a moral support from all the members and also had specific value in the society. Arranged is better than the love.
@Betso221 (1699)
• India
9 Dec 06
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I think about marriage and i get scared. I think if u c to it it's should b ur luck to get a good girl and de way u trat her how much true u are too her. It just depends on that & LUCK.
@mayammb (1815)
• Australia
9 Dec 06
i think both r ok.U choose which u feel is right for u. Mine was an arranged marriage and i'm very happy with my husband.
@BunGirl (2638)
• United States
9 Dec 06
I think it is better to marry someone you love, but only if both people are wholly committed to one another. Both must understand that marriage is a permanent thing, not to be tossed aside at the first sign of conflict.