to love or be loved? that is the question

Philippines
December 9, 2006 9:08am CST
given a chance, would you rather love a person and risk your feelings get hurt if he does not reciprocate OR be loved by a person whom you do not share the same feelings? please expound as you answer. i'll be waiting for your replies ;)
3 responses
2treatme
@2treatme (1245)
• India
9 Dec 06
i belive both are two sides of a coin. what do you say?
chikinjoy
@chikinjoy (7)
• Philippines
10 Dec 06
hhmm... yes, that is true. but can you only pick one???
ezzrssi
@ezzrssi (11188)
• Italy
9 Dec 06
to be loved is important
chikinjoy
@chikinjoy (7)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
true. what if you dont feel the same? hmm?
purrfect1969
@purrfect1969 (510)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Either way would be bad. In the past, I tried a relationship with someone I thought I loved. I guess liked is a better word. I was attracted to him. He was to me. I wanted it to be more serious. He did not. I gave him time. He did not share my feelings. I finally gave up. Other guys have liked me in the same way, as I did that guy, but I had no feelings for them. That made me feel awkward. I hated hurting them. I would rather be the one hurt that do the hurting. So I guess I would rather be the one in love with a person who didn't love me. SOrry, if I rabbled.
chikinjoy
@chikinjoy (7)
• Philippines
9 Dec 06
nah, it's ok. been there too. so the score is : to love = 1 be loved = 0 NEXT!!!