can a educated man marry a uneducated lady
@andrewshowman (6)
India
42 responses
@MrsFrizzle (1963)
• United States
19 Sep 06
It works if you work it and if there is love. My husband has a baclorsdegree. He is very book smart. He reads and knows lots of big words.
I Dropped out of college it was not for me. I have ADD and it makes formal education hard.
So you would assume he was smarter correct. Inteligance is subjective and education helps in life but it is not everything.
My husband is a teacher and I learn new things from him everyday. However he does not know how to make a budget, write a check, and has no clue what is gong on with our fianaces. I am very good at this.
So we work together. I have life skills he has book smarts and we even each other out and are intrested in each other because we both bring differnt perspectives into every conversation.
Love is key!
@Lackingstyle (7509)
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19 Sep 06
Why not? Just because she is uneducated and/or not as educated as him doesn’t mean the sparks of love won’t fly between them. I’m sure many marriages and partnerships are formed of one them being more intelligent than the other; it’s natural.
Although generally terribly uneducated people have the worst personalities and most annoying elements to their presence, but love is a funny ol’ thing.
@tejaswinee (705)
• India
20 Nov 06
Yes.. as long as the educated does not try to overpower the uneducated or keep insulting them bcos they are uneduceted..
If there is True Love.. anything is fine..
@jlucas (127)
• United States
15 Oct 06
there is several ways in being educated I worked with a lot of people that had college degrees but did not have sense enough to come in out of the rain Having a lot of horse sense will get you through a lot of times . Don't get me wrong a good education of books is great. But If I had to choose between the two I'll take a good set of horse sense every time.
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
13 Oct 06
yes of course, i don't see anything wrong with it specially if they both are inlove with each other. greetings. : )
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
13 Oct 06
yes of course, i don't see anything wrong with it specially if they both are inlove with each other. greetings. : )
@coolme_kiran (992)
• India
7 Oct 06
the marriage can take place between and educated man and uneducated lady. but then problem might arise and in such cases inferior and superior feelings might crop up in the relation.
@skittlez353 (1402)
• United States
28 Sep 06
If they`re in love, than anything could happen. he could go to work, while she`s a stay-at-home mom. There`s a lot of woman around the world that have it like that.
@sassybritches72 (494)
• United States
7 Oct 06
I dont think being educated or uneducated really makes any difference in a relationship. neither my husband or I went to college, but we both know and do different things. my husband works outside the home to provide for our family, I stay home and take care of the kids, he brings home the paycheck, but I send out our bills, I couldnt do his job because I dont have the knowledge, the same as he has no idea how I make the money I make on the computer. we work together to try and make ends meet. we work together and love each other and thats what counts.
@jamesibechi (84)
• Lagos, Nigeria
27 Sep 06
just go ahead men, I did. I am educated up to a degree level. my wife is just primary 4 dropout.But i love her and she loved me. Infact, I now find it a pleasure to educate her on what i want that i know that 'd strenghen our partnership. And i love to discover that she grasps things ahead of my imagination. I thing if there is love between, education should get too far into our heads to determine whom we marry. What if you marry educated one and does not find true love and happiness in your partner.
@DeborahWY (306)
• Singapore
27 Sep 06
I don't see why he should not? Only premise is that they must love each other and are ready to accept each other.
@sevenseas (754)
• United States
27 Sep 06
I really don't think whether or not a female had a college degree would cause me to be more or less attractive to me. I wouldn't want someone stupid and unable to have a decent discussion about anything, but it does't take a college education for someone to be intelligent. As a matter of fact, I've dated some really really DUMB college girls.
@juls2me2 (2150)
• United States
28 Sep 06
You can marry anyone you want. I'd marry for love, deep friendship, and some kind of attraction. Just because the woman may not have a Degree of some kind, she may still possess common sense. Some of the highly educated don't even have that. You really need to decide what's valuable to you. Do you want a partner that can carry on an in depth conversation with you or just someone that's pleasurable to look at? Okay....both are good too. Marriage is the intention for making it last forever. Being an educated man, figure out what characters in a wife you value, respect, and believe are necessary. Then....decide if it works with the person you feel is uneducated. Remember... Education can also come in the form of learned life experiences.