By boyfriend would rather play computer games than spend time with me :(

South Africa
December 9, 2006 1:46pm CST
Am I crazy to stay in this relationship? He's been withdrawing more and more... IT's so bad now I really don't know what to do. He might be addicted to computer games, depressed, falling/fallen out of love with me - or just stupid... Do I stay with him and try to sort things out - or is it time to call it a day?
5 responses
@krysy1982 (1041)
• United States
1 Jan 07
You need to tell him how that makes you feel. If then he doesnt stop you have to decide if it is worth fighting for
@utsadetti (4589)
• United States
1 Jan 07
yeah, it is a problem that a partner often encounter with. i can't do anything except you should explain to him lol.
@sedel1027 (17846)
• Cupertino, California
9 Dec 06
Do you feel like the relationship is worth keeping? Have you even talked to him about how you feel? If not, that should be your first step. My fiance and my son love ocmputer geams and other gaming activities. What you should try doing is plan activites a few days in advance and say this is what we are going ot do. I find that if they have something in the real world to do that they are interested in, they will drop their computer games. Have you tried playing the game with him and making it an activity that you can do together?
@medooley (1873)
• United States
10 Dec 06
This is a tough one... I assume you have talked to him about it. If not you need to do that first. I am assuming that he is probably just addicted to the games, they can be that way. All that being said... you need to do what is going to make yourself happy, and if you don't see yourself being happy with this guy it is best to get out now.
@cnetboss (2473)
• Philippines
29 Dec 06
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If you have talk to him about this matter before and still continues to do it. Dump him. he's not worth of your time anyway