Why DO SINGLE WOMEN POST PICS THAT SHOW TOO MUCH...

NO DOUBT - GWEN STEFANI
United States
December 9, 2006 4:21pm CST
on their Myspace. I know that obviously its to attract guys but what kinda guys are they trying to attract. I ask because I see some women who are looking for seriuos relationships and post provocative pics. One in particular only shows her chest on display. You can't even see her face and yet they wonder why they keep attracting jerks. I know you may want to look good but there is a way to take a sexy pic without looking easy. What do u think?
10 responses
@medooley (1873)
• United States
10 Dec 06
My thoughts on this is that they just want people to tell them how good looking they are. Everyone likes to hear complements every now and then but I think that those people need to hear them to make themself feel better.
• United States
10 Dec 06
It's only temporary though. Compliments fade away when you don't believe it yourself.
• United States
10 Dec 06
there are plenty of reasons why I am sure but none that will attacted the man of dreams if he is attracted to a lady that will show it all and then marry her she will find he will continue to look and search for bigger and better so to speak. It is the same if a lady meets a drunk man at a bar and then wonders why he has a drinking problem and like to go to bars still after they marry you know what you are getting before you marry it is just up to you to see it and decide if that is what you want for the rest of your life.
• United States
10 Dec 06
So true. The signs are always there. You just have to look for them.
• United States
10 Dec 06
Good question. I think it's because they're desperate and are willing to do just about anything for attention. Kinda sad! The ones it attracts are just as desperate. Why would you want a woman that's so easy for others?
• United States
10 Dec 06
And sometimes they aren't easy but they portray themselves that way and attract the wrong people. It is sad. But I think we eventually learn from it...or hopefully they do.
@not4me (1711)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I know that plenty of married women do that as well. But anyway, since they can't attract a guy with their brains, they go for the b00bs instead. It's pathetic.
@nake89 (557)
• Finland
10 Dec 06
A woman attracting a guy with her brain? Woah, that's a first one.
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I know it is important to be attracted to the person you are in a relationship with. I would not want to be with someone who has only bases how they feel about me on how I look or a picture. That sort of "relationship" is never going to go anywhere.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
10 Dec 06
i agree its why pictures dont really matter, its the person thats important
• United States
10 Dec 06
i think people do it because we live in a society that says it doesn't matter who you are or what you think, it only matters if you can turn me on. hollywood tells us that, freaking junior high tells us that. it's not going to be until people understand that people are people, not meat, that this stops.
• United States
10 Dec 06
I think once a person stops giving into all that Hollywood stereotype bull and has more respect for themselves they'll demand it from others and be alot happier for it.
@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
10 Dec 06
I totally agree with you there Also what is to say that is actually them Women and not just some Picture Also doing that attracts the wrong kind of Men
@Metallion (2227)
• United States
10 Dec 06
99% of those photos are not photos of the person who has the account. 99% of them are men on here hoping people will respond to their discussions because they think they are sexy women, it's pathetic, too many do it on here.
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
10 Dec 06
i dont know if they do show too much, is it possible to show too much? i dont think so, and any picture ive seen have been respectable anywhere outside the islamic world and no one really takes them seriously do they?
@misskatonic (3723)
• United States
9 Dec 06
Some women are just proud of their bodies and enjoy dressing and photographing themselves that way. Some of my pictures are pretty provocative, but I'm not doing it to attract anyone. I just like the way I look. There are women who go for sleazy poses because they think it'll make them seem more appealing, and that's just silly. I believe in only showing oneself off if you enjoy it and feel good about doing it. Do it for yourself, not for someone else.
• United States
9 Dec 06
Preach it sister. See nothing wrong if your doing it for your own pleasure such as yourself. I just don't understand for those who do it to attract men and are looking for a serious relationship how they think they are going to attract the RIGHT Man that way.