BISEXUALTIY: A TREND OR A CURSE?
By philipooh22
@philipooh22 (8)
Philippines
December 10, 2006 6:29am CST
Lets face the reality that the population of the so-called "REAL MEN" is being outnumbered by what we call "MODERN GAYS or BISEXUALS". Its getting crazier and crazier everytime i hear unexpected people who suddenly flunt and admit that they are gays. ITS LIKE A BIG O-M-G! HUH?WHAAAAAT??? Ur gay? sounds like that.
What CONCERNS me here is that, i just want a clear and mature explanation why all these stuffs are happening. PLease help me understand. Because honestly, i am in the middle of identity crisis too. I dont know where i belong..i am a lost soul!I hav known several people who confided that they are bisexuals. AND take note. ITS UNBELIEVABALE! they are totaly discrete..but why? that i dunno....help me out pls.
TERRIBLE ISNT IT?
21 responses
@vipul20044 (5793)
• India
10 Dec 06
Bisexuality is common in a lot of species including humans. Even if it wasn't, why should you justify who you find attractive? It's not like you have a choice or anyone is getting it hurt.
But that is just for mere saying
personally i too feel so degraded when i see such people
That how the hell they had this wierd preference of theirs
But then the govt today is understanding
By legalising gay marriages, people who are gay or they were hiding to be are coming up in society saying that proudly
But then what the hell
Am just happy am not like any of them!
@wyrdsister (584)
• Canada
10 Dec 06
I'm sorry! I totally posted this comment under the wrong comment - I ment to post it under the actual first post. Sorry for any confusion! myLot staffers, please feel free to delete this comment.
~Wyrdsister
@philipooh22 (8)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Good for you! your not one of them...hahaha
but HOW SURE ARE YOU?
@canadabis1 (1952)
• Canada
10 Dec 06
the way i look at it...is to each thier own...its there choice and as long as its not being pushed on me...do whatcha want!...if u can look at another guys hairy *ss and say..ooo..I want that...well...as disturbing as it sounds...its thier choice....I couldnt do it...I like b**bs to much..lol
@philipooh22 (8)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
but it doesnt mean if u like bOOBS so much..you are a real man???? dont you think so?
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
11 Dec 06
BISEXUALTY is not a trend or a curse, i prefer to call it unhealty or special people.why hey become like that it has so many reason, some of them might only want to try at the 1st but then they got drag into the environment and become like them, other reason of gay are becoz they losing trust of a woman can be cause of they mother etc and can be posible its in their gen.i have a friend who is gay, 2 people and both of their father is also a gay eventhough they're married to their mother but they still gay,my friend also said they didnt want tobe gay but they cant stop it.everytime they look at a guy they always have a funny feeling even a "chemistry", but when they try it with a women they feel nothing at all.
@philipooh22 (8)
• Philippines
14 Dec 06
i think your wrong...its in the genes too... and cud be acquired from the environment. *wink*
@tinselcrimson (356)
• India
10 Dec 06
you are so right my friend..its become a curse!..slowly people are getting crazier and crazier...some havnt even left out animals!!!!
they are just mentally retarted-brainless-crazy-freaks...
dont turn into one buddy!...
@remaster74 (4064)
• Greece
11 Dec 06
Why all this noise about it? I think it's something really natural in ours days. If you are in crisis you have to sit down and think from which point you are attracted more. Women or men? Or is it both? I find it natural and I hope you will make soon a decision.
@kishore415 (889)
• India
11 Dec 06
its a trend coming form the ancient days....its not a curse at alll
@dementia88 (900)
• United States
11 Dec 06
i don't think its either. but i do believe that some people flaunt it to get attention, not all but there are some girls who do it to get boys.
@rakeshdas (427)
• India
11 Dec 06
from my point of view its trend .... its a mentality.. how can one call it curse???
@princess07031980 (5412)
• United States
10 Dec 06
I am straight and could be way off base with this-but I believe that bi-sexuality is a transitional stage. Curiosity or crisis can cause a person to want a major change in their life. The "dust will settle" and you will find where you belong. I heard pretty much that exact quote from a dear friend of mine who is completely gay. I am glad gays are feeling more open with themselves and can be comfortable with who they are. It has to be hard for them as seemingly much unaccepted and tormented often times.
@Beautiful_Nightmare (1337)
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10 Dec 06
I don't think it's a curse, nor do I think It's a trend. However, I think some people claim to be bi just as so many people are or claim to be thesedays. I personally don't care what someone's preffered sexuality is - it's their choice if they want to like men, women or both.
@urzicutza (1971)
• Romania
10 Dec 06
well it seeams that gay people show there faces more often!
yes it is tru!why?
sometimes i belive that they are so confuzet about ther life that they donbt know what als they can do to be in the top of everybody!
for some people is a life stile!that is what they are!
for some it is just a thing!a new thing that makes that feal more special!
i dont understand this people!
maibe they need a normal social life!
they are so confuzed and so f...y up!
butt with the normal gay people i dont have anything to coment!
they are just like us!and i respect them!
theyr love for each other!
@kiiizu (1901)
• Estonia
10 Dec 06
If I had to choose, I'd rather say, it's a curse. For me it's hard to understand because I'm heterosexual but I guess, we have much more chances to find a good partner than gays, just because of numbers. We are the majority. If you don't know exactly where you belong, perhaps it's reasonable to take a time out. Just try not to think about it. And if you then suddenly fall in love with somebody... who could it be? Perhaps then you'll find the answer.
@oxximitzu (413)
• Romania
11 Dec 06
hmmm , i guess that the only one who knows where your place is , is you... nowdays gay` people are a little respected and tollerated... it may be hormonal , it may be psihical .... who knows , but i strongly suggest , to take a good look at youself in the mirror and don`t rush in taking a decision concerning your problem....
