i want to have extra marrital affair can u help me or should i not do this ?

It's up to you but I think you will destroy your relationship with your wife totally if you have an affair. You would be better to try to patch things up with your wife. Take her out, treat her special and then explain how much she hurts you by not respecting your feelings. If you give first she may be more willing to listen. All the best, Merrie

If you think that you're fedup with your wife gives you a good reason to flirt around outside, you're WRONG!