What really makes you feel good about yourself?

There are two things mainly, that make me feel good about myself. I do charity work for the local hospital, and people in the village where I live, of all ages, approach me to confide in me and ask me my opinion on things. When I ask them why they came to me, they said, I'm the type of person they know will listen and give a good, unjudged opinion. That gives me a feeling of pride. :-)

I dont do charity work. but, still i feel i am a good person. Beacause, I don't anyone, I dont lie, I have cleared many problems & misunderstandings between my friends. they all say I am a postive thinker & well patience man.