Do you prefer love marriage or arrange marriage?

India
December 11, 2006 3:42am CST
hi all, tell me Do you prefer love marriage or arrange marriage?
2 responses
• India
11 Dec 06
i prefer love marriage becouse when ever you chose your partner it is nessary to know the person.but in arrange marriage such things dos't happend.
• India
11 Dec 06
okey thats good but dont u think
• India
11 Dec 06
thanks
@enemies (739)
• India
22 Jan 07
ok let me tell u this, i am an arab, and at the time i was 17 i finished high school, got a full paid schlarship to a university, a brandnew car, i had it all, at the same time i got a guy knockin on my door, askin to get married, well i freaked out of course 3 days cryin tellin my parents no and they kept trying to convince me until one day i just thought about it and said why not, i mean hes a good guy, good family, handsome, ill get to know him and then im sure i will know, so i agreed then we were engaged and talked on the phone for hours i mean i started to actually feel something for this guy, he was the same perosnality, he was so open minded and fun to talk to , so i started slowly to love the guy, then when our wedding came 7 months later, i turned 18 1 week after was the big day, and ever since then 3 and a half years later, I AM IN LOVE!!! I MEAN I CANT EXPLAIN HOW MUCH WE BOTH!! R IN LOVE, we have 2 beautiful kids, and we are always happy and i guess, living together all that time made us love eachother more and i have more respect for him just as he does for me and what makes me happy is that he says i was the one girl he's been lookin for all his life and that i was the only one he ever said i love u too, i mean he fooled around and did eveyrthing u can think of , but that one special thing he saved for me, so he asks me do u wish that we fell in love or r u happy with the arranged marriage and i told him the second one, cuz the word LOVE cant even describe what i feel for him.