Men are too selfish or is it the women?

men can be selfish this i agree but i have met many women who are more selfish then men so it depends ont he people i guess in my relationship im very selfish when it comes to things that i would like to have for myself and i spend my own money my man is not selfish at all unless it comes to soemthing hes really wanted for a long time otherwise i get spoiled alot my first marriage well it was all about him not the kids not me just him him him so if you are in a situation where you think you are selfish really ask yurself if you are or if he is and wiothout any guilt trips that may be laid upon you if your mate is laying guilt trips on you then i would say hes definetly selfish and controlling lots of luck