when you fall inlove, do you give your all to the person you love?

@maryannemax (12156)
Sweden
December 11, 2006 6:41am CST
when you fall inlove, do you give your 100% to that person? or do you leave something reserved for yourself? when i fall for someone, i really fall 100%. and i never regret falling inlove so much.
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@cr1st1nel (3564)
• Romania
26 Dec 06
love - love
No when i fall in love i never give 100% from what i have to the realationship. It is no good to put so much of your soul into a realtionship because you never know when you will be disappointed and you will be really sad when it will end because you gave everything you had. Good luck!
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
26 Dec 06
right. i know, too. but somehow, when i love someone so deep, i can't stop but give him my 100% attention.
• United States
31 Dec 06
Dear friend, Love is the pure feeling of your heart and soul. We can't love anyone with planning. If we are in love with someone, love can not be counted in amount. Same as we can not distribut our thinghs with me and my lover. After falling in love I will not think about something is mine or it is yours............... definitely I think It is ours (Me and my lover). When we distribute the things between mine and yours, it will break us in to two. If we are two than we don't love to each other. If we love to eachother than we are not the two......... we are only one in our soul. If unfortunately my love disoppointed me, then there will be no any meaning of wealth and property in my life.... because my precious and valuable wealth is my love. If I lost my love everything will be worthless for me. I think it is true love.
@pelya178 (693)
• United States
12 Dec 06
i give my all when i fall in love too. i mean when i really really fall for someone. but other than that i used to try n keep to myself n i never let anyone in. i guess for risk of getting hurt. but now i found the love of my life and the feeling is soo mutual n thats the best f-ing feeling in the world! lol we both give 100% BUTTTT my friends think im more in love with her than she is in love with me. N on the other hand my boo's friend said it seemed to her that my boo was more in love with me than iam with her. But my boo quickly corrected her friend saying " if ANYTHINGGG- iam more in love with her" :-| but its totally mutual but if anything im the one more in love with her. this response did a number on me for a while. n i couldnt get it out of my head n it affected our relationship. n the whole time i knew i shouldnt let it bother me. and i shouldnt worry about what ppl think. but i did and i didnt know how to fix it. until i realized i dont give a damn if i do love her more. even tho i know its so mutual. :-) lol
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Dec 06
we always tend to reserve something for us because we're scared to get hurt in the process. and it's just a natural feeling. nobody wants to get hurt anyway. but we have to remember that when we are ready to love someone, it just means that we are also ready to get hurt at some point ...
@Betso221 (1699)
• India
11 Dec 06
Visuals - Visuals
NO i don't commit myself fully cause i vil do that and somethings goes wrong in de relationship then i can get very depressed that's why i always don't love someone dearly.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
yes. we all are told not to give everything in the name of love. but i give my 100% in a relationship. and if i get hurt in the end, it's my own fault. it won't make me less of a person anyway.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
11 Dec 06
yes probably too much I make them my worls which I might add I am never going to do again....or try not to.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
oh. ouch. you've been to such a bad experience? i had been to bad experiences, too. but it's okey. i learn from them.
@crystal8577 (1466)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I am a person that if I am really in love than I give my all. I think that the person deserves at least that much from me. It can be hard to do that if you have been hurt though.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
12 Dec 06
love - love
past is past. if you've been hurt before, that's part of your past. you should not let it ruin your new relationship. and just like you, i give it my all. when you love a person, you love him with all your heart.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
22 Nov 12
On the first time that I enter a relationship, I thought he was the man that I will live with forever and I give all my love to him but when we broke up I feel that I will never find another mind like him and I thought that is the end of my world and I realize that I also learn a lesson in what happened and that is, I must still save some love for my self so I can easily accept or I can easily move on. I will just give all of my love to the person that will be with me forever.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
4 Jan 07
after a bad fall, i learned to keep something for myself. so when i fell in love before, i gave 90% (which was my best already), and left the 10% as my cushion when the fall turns out to be wrong. but once i tied the knot, it's giving my all which is beyond 100%.
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
we do not have to set limitations in loving someone. i myself fall in love 100% or maybe 101%. I never regreting falling in love by giving all to the person i love. i give my all, i love to the very best i can give. :)
@kulanuwun (1404)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 07
Yes I am
@mashimaro (1094)
• Philippines
4 Jan 07
you'll never know..it is hard to say but..we never think ourselves..sometimes they think that we only want what's best for her/him but you never know that you give to him/her is very dangerous because too much love will kill you.
• Canada
1 Jan 07
Love is love you fall inlove that means 100% of your feel become out of your control (it is not your choice) if it is real love, even you got hurt in the past. You can say it is magic because you become undercontrol. Just look how the status of the lovers : no sleep, no eating, they are walking but infact they are dreaming.
@god_spear (498)
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
I dont think falling in love should have a parameter as long a you truly love that person. Love means sacrifices in order for yor love to be happy. When i was in college i fall in love and i think that was more than 100% but i turned out that the one i love did not giver her whole heart, maybe she is not sure wether she loves me or not, its a very painful experienced for me. Now i gave my love but not the one i gave to the first love.Just the same i love her for with all heart.
• Philippines
1 Jan 07
yes i give him my 100%...and i don't leave anything for me.it's ok,because when i fall inlove,i try my best to make the person feel special.and if ever,unfortunately we break up,i will be confident enough to say that it's his loss,because no one would ever love him the way i did!and he'll regret every second of his life that he chose to spend without me... =) haha
• United States
5 Jan 07
When you fall in love, you do just that...you fall completely and unconditionally in love with that person. I do not hold back any feelings because that would mean that I am not sure about what I am feeling. I give my all because I want him to give his all. Falling truly in love with someone doesn't happen often, but when it does...give it your all!!!
@susana25 (341)
• Philippines
31 Dec 06
All of us can give our 100% when we fall in love. I can give my 100% to,but not the whole,I mean even I give my 100% for the man I love,I still control my mind my heart and I can balance the way it works. So that you will never regret and hurt that much when time comes that you part a ways. happy new year...
• India
1 Jan 07
Well in a relationship, I can give 100% of everything. Everything she wants. Everything she needs. But I am sure i will not give anyone 100% of my money. Because i believe god and money is the best friend you have in this world.
• United States
31 Dec 06
Ofcourse 101%. Actually when I say "I am in love with you" it means I am completely yours. When I am your's that means my all things automatically goes to u. thats all :):):)