Can someone help Me?
By Tara_Bug16
@Tara_Bug16 (26)
United States
December 11, 2006 8:02am CST
What is love and does anyone really know what it means? My boyfriend says he loves me. But how do i know he means it?
5 responses
@michele609 (1687)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Love means you accept someone unconditionally. You learn patience and toleration for things you would not normally have these attributes for. When things look bad, you don't run away from it right away, you work through it till you are both happy with the results.It's hard work sometimes, but love is worth it. The reason why their are so many defintions are becasue people always mixed up love and lust! SO be careful!
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
right. and you don't have to think much about it. you just have to feel it...
@Tara_Bug16 (26)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Im scared to fall in love cuz i lost to many people who were really close to me. Like my dad and my cousin. My moms dien to. But yes i will be careful.
@Tara_Bug16 (26)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Thats why i ask!! Im pretty sure there is one true answer out there. But what is it?
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
love is the only reason why i am able to smile and look for a better tomorrow.
you'll know when you're boyfriend is sincere about what he's saying if he can say it looking straight into your eyes. you'll feel it somehow. if he can be there for you always, put you on top of his priorities, sees to it that he gets to spend time with you, cares for you, looks after your welfare... and so many others.. just don't think too much ... just try and feel the love your boyfriend's giving you.
@vishwas_niraj (2759)
• India
11 Dec 06
hello dear i agree with you u r in trubble . I love my gf to much she also loves me this is a feeling which never explain you .. So if u want to know what is love u just keep in touch and tell u what's going on with both of us mans me and my gf .. From this u got some idea ... And specially ur from us i like us people from us ... Waiting for reply ...
@Tara_Bug16 (26)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Yes i am and its hard cuz i trust him. But my feelins are way different.
@jaime_guitarist (67)
• Philippines
11 Dec 06
One of the grandest descriptions of love is found in Scripture. Here it is: "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres" (1 Corinthians 13:4-7).
