Have you ever?
By meeandnotyou
@meeandnotyou (2548)
United States
December 11, 2006 8:38am CST
Have you ever had one of those days where it seems like nothing goes right?!? Please tell me about it! It seems like I am having one of them days. My keys are lost, my dog bit mee, my daughter decided to fight with mee first thing this morning, my mail has run but I did not get the check that should be here yet my bills are on time, I burnt myself with my cup of coffee, i almost fell down the steps (thank god for solid rails)....... I think I am going back to bed, (if I can sleep hell the house may catch fire or something). Have a bettter day than I am!!!
26 responses
@Sheeniepie (873)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
well sometimes those things happen to us, and it pissed us off... but that doesnt happen all the time, so i guess you just have to deal with it, the next thing that it happens to you again, just give yourself a break and cool things off.. calm down and take a deep breath, believe me that could help a lot..
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
thank you so very much for the kind words and the wonderful sentiment. I am so glad that so many wonderful myLot user have had such kind words and thoughts for mee since I was having an awful start to my day. Thank you for the great advice that you gave mee, it is a good thing to stop take a breath and recenter yourself, it usually works great but for some reason this morning it did not. Once again thank you for the great post, you are so very kind to a person that you do not even know and that is what will make a place like myLot so very great, not the payment!! Have a great day with oh so many more to come!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
21 Dec 06
I am so glad that you check to see if someone has left a message for you. Thank you for being a great myLot member, thank you for the post and have a great day!!
@Sheeniepie (873)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
dont mention it, pleasure is mine...^_^
may you have the greatest day from this day forward...
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@ragavan01 (53)
• India
11 Dec 06
tat's really funny..i hav some experiences like tat something different some commom...dog bite[my dog who was in a bad mood...i tried to console him...he simply told don't disturb in his own way:)],an accident(i didn't got hurt::a miracle),fights in my home,scoldings from my parents,fight with my best friends.....but really matters is how you tale this....i tokk everything a jolly laugh(though litter fear in my inner mind) and the very next day every thing seemed to turn alright normal......
it is about ur mind how you takin ur problems..just forget abt it..
don't worry buddy everythin vil become gud by tommrrow..
gud luck
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Glad you are feeling better. I told you everything would be alright!
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Why yes you did thank you very much for the kind word and for the wonderful posts. Have a wonderful day and keep on posting!!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
My damn dogg bit mee because I was getting into MY BED!!! I think that it only got bad enough to vent because I have only had like 3 hrs of sleep in a week (PTSD). I am usually real good at laughing stuff off (pain, emotions, misery) but I'll be damned if this morning did not get to mee. Everything seems fine now, I got a little sleep. Thank you for the kind words and the thoughtful post. I hope that you have a great morning and a wonderful day!!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Well I am back. Thankyou for the reply. I try to stay focused but man is it hard when you are sleep deprived. Anyways I took a nap so hopefully it will be better now.
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Thank you for the post. I am sorry to hear that you also had a very rough day, and to top it off you posted about it and did not get a responce. I have posted so very many discussions and none of them got much response till this one, most got no response at all. I hope that today is a much better day for you as it seems like it is for mee. So have a great day today and an even better day tomorrow!!
@farocop44 (447)
• Canada
11 Dec 06
Wondering if you're going to see your mylot responses if you go back to bed. You might miss out on a good solution to your bad day. I say sell everything, sell the keys, sell the dog, sell the coffee, sell the house, and move to a different country.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Now they was funny too, you all
are characters!
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
To be comedic helps to break the tension, thus making an enjoyable place to be................... What the hell am I saying, we just all need to be locked-up
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
That would be a great idea but I live here in Michigan and the winter is mighty cold, only other country I would live in is Canada and that is even colder!!! Not to mention I have a fiancee adn kids to worry about and also.........oh hell I can sell them too!!! Thank you for the post I hope you have a geat Day!!!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
It sounds as if today is not one of them days! I am glad to hear that I am not the only one but I am not to hear that someone else has the same problems I do. Thank you for the post and I hope that you are having a great day and a better tomorrow!!
@princess_lula (27)
• United States
11 Dec 06
You should go back to bed, you really should. You are in one of those days that you can't get out of, and there is no escape until tonight at midnight when it's over.
Try to do the lease things you can for the day, and try to sleep early. tomorrow will be better.
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Thank you both for the post and I have already took the nap and feel alright now. Now only if I can get my typing fingers to work right I woudl be great, I keep inverting letters and I am continually having to correct my words so a 2min post is now taking me 3. Once again thank you for the post and have a great day!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
For some people prayer is always the answer, but for mee it rarely is. See it at times make things worse when there is no answer but if I depend on myself then I can only fail myself. Thank you for the thoughtful reply. Have a great day and a better tomorrow!!
@tom_rodrick (118)
• India
12 Dec 06
i met with and accident. i came under the bus. and after 1 week i have to give my final year exam n i could do any thing
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Ouch!! I hope that all is alright now, unless this just happened and in that case I hope it all gets better real soon. I can totally sympathize with you and your situation. I knew better than to go outside yesterday since if I did sure as hell I would have gotten struck by lightening or something. Thank you for your post and for sharing with mee. I hope that the grass is getting greener for you each and every day!!
@palliyath (122)
• India
12 Dec 06
Yes i do.Not once but on too many occassions.I am feeling the after effect of all those now in my life.I would love to share with you but it will make me dishearten, so sorry.
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I am so sorry to hear about your streak of bad luck but hey one day it does have to end and that will be the best day of your life. Keep your head up and look forward to that day since if you have had it hard this long then it can only go up from here. Start every day with a positive thought and a smile and it will be better!! I will keep you in my thoughts. Thank you for the great post lettign mee know that I am not alone in this world. I hope that you have a great day and a wonderful life!!
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Yes today is a much better day! It may have been the sars lining up to screw with mee, or maybe some unresolved karma. What ever it was I am glad that it is over with now and everything is back on track as status quo. Thank you for the kind words and the thoughtful post!! Have a glorous day!
@muntaha (376)
• Bangladesh
12 Dec 06
sad to hear about your worst day. I have a similar one. i lost my id in the morning before my exam. after managing my course teacher i was 25mins late in that exam...forgot everything...then had a little accident while returning home....mom was very much angry...it was a total disaster
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I am so sorry to hear about your bad day you had going there. I hope that every thing worked out or atleast the damage was able to be reversed. It is hard when we have our bad days, they make mee feel like crawling under a rock! Thank you for the great post and for the reflection of yourown. I hope that the world is a much brighter place for you now!!
@Ambur25 (1006)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I hear ya darlin'. My goodness. It all kinda seems like a domino effect when one thing happens! Then the rest of the day kinda goes downhill. But, what helps me, is my stubborness!! Lol. I put it in my head that "today is NOT going to be another bad day!" I turn on the radio, and start singing and whistling to the songs, even if I don't want to!! And one or two songs later, I always seem to feel better. =) But that's music for me. It can turn any day around. Hope you feel better soon!
If anything? Come for a laugh or two at www.justanotherchat.com
That ALWAYS makes me feel better =P
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Stubborness!!! What a wonderful thing at times and in moderation. We have this saying from where I am from "A hard head makes for a Soft a**" meaning that sometimes our hardheadedness sometimes can cause us to hurt ourselves, so moderation is the key. I use to be very hardheaded and it caused mee to hurt myself, but that is my fault and my hardheadedness went further than just music.
That is a great idea using music to try to change your mindset, to get out of your bad day! I will definately try that next time I have a bad day but I am thinking...... maybe my singing will cause others to have a bad day.... My first single will be "SOUNDS FROM THE BOWELS OF HELL!!!"
@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
12 Dec 06
Yes. First of all I learn that I forgot to set the alarm the night before. I leave the house to find that I have a slow puncture. It lashes rain while I wait to have it repaired. Some shop assistant is rude to me and I can't wait to get back home away from them. Come home to find the water has been switched off due to new houses being built in the area. Never mind, I think, I will use the bottled water, only to find some rotten sod has used the last of it. Then I decide to switch on the tv and wait for the water to come back on. All that's on is a load of rubbish. Back to the internet to find my internet is down. Then I wonder how people lived hundreds of years ago.
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Wow that sounded like it was a hell of a day!! I hope that was a one time thing, not an everday occurance!! Also I hope that things have gotten much, much better now.
I also wonder how people 100 years ago lived. With all of the modern technology I think that most of us would be lost.
Thank you for your thoughtful post and for sharing your story. I hope that you have a wonderful day today and an even better day tomorrow!!!
@samaira (162)
• India
12 Dec 06
many times i faced such terrible days...but its sad that u r facing it now...but yes sometimes it looks like nothing is going the way u wanted it to go...u feel annoyed...disgusted..n wat not...oh my god i actually started feeling it...lolz...but later when i sit n realize wat actually went wrong i feel...it was all my mistake..i did'nt do things properly...n it is very true coz no one can do anything unless u urself are clear about what u want
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
This is so very true and Thank you for your very kind words and thoughts. Today has been a much better day although I do not know what tomorow may bring, so all I can do is hope that it goes well. I also get that feeling when I talk about something I can actually feel it. You have been sweet and kind. Thank you for the reply and for the kind words/thoughts. May the sun shine brightly and brighten your every day!!
@cutepenguin (6431)
• Canada
12 Dec 06
Hey did your day get better?
Sometimes I give up and try to pretend I'm starting my day over. I just take a five or ten minute break and tell myself to reset. Occasionally that works. Sometimes I just have to live out the day, trusting that tomorrow will be better.
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Oh yeah like I said up^^^^ thre a ways. I went in and took an hour nap, when I woke up I felt brand new again yet stil my hand does not what to work for squat, but that it all fine and good. Thank you for your caring, kind and considerate thoughts and coments
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Yeah sometimes it is a good thing to hide in bed and ride out the storm, expecially if you know that usually helps. I goto bed since I know that will work for mee, it always has. What better cure for waking up on the wrong side of the bed???? Climb right back in and try it again... that is IF your dog does not bite you!!!! :-) HAve a great day and thank you for the post!!
@subhadiproy (847)
• India
12 Dec 06
some day...i ll b very close to many accidents many time ... but nothing happens serious tough... but i wondwer..why so many chances in a single day :)
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I do not know why I had so many things went wrong at once. All I know is it always happens like that. Hell I almost put on a crash helmet everytime something goes wrong since I know it will be a big chain reaction, like a row of dominos falling down. If I had the answer to the question then I would avoid the whole situation. Thank you for the post and have a great day!!
@AlmightyBigfoot888 (553)
• United States
12 Dec 06
i just had one of those last week.
it happened to be one of the days where every scheduled class had a test, and i failed 2 of 3, and then it just went downhill.
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I am so very sorry to hear about your bad day! But there is one good thing about that bad day (the same applies to all of them I have had) and that is that we have survived and maybe even gathered some knowledge from it. Maybe your next test you will study a little harded for or maybe take a little more seriously,(mee I am not touching the bed next to the dog when he is sleeping again). So keep your head up and smile at the adversity since........a smile will chase away a million tears. Thank you for the considerate post. Have a great day and a wonderful tomorrow!!
@daggi1712 (158)
• Germany
12 Dec 06
oh yes*smile.
yesterday it was such a day, when i thought in the evening..."why did you get up in the morning".
but noe, it is a new one, and it could only com better.
have a very nice day and keep smiling.
@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I am so very sorry to hear about your day being so very bad. I hope that today is a much better day for you as it seems to be for mee as well. HAve a wonderful day today and an even better day tomorrow! Thank you for the great post and also for the wonderful thoughts!!
@bibotanks (42)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
wow that's a weird in my whole life im always thought like that.....
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@meeandnotyou (2548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Thank you for the post! Keep on posting and enjoy your stay here at myLot! Have a great day!