Will you marry a person who is divorced?
By naughtysexy
@naughtysexy (110)
India
December 11, 2006 12:57pm CST
Is it the end of life for the people who have been through a divorce?A man can still start another family as seen in many cases.But what about women do they have the right to marry again and start a new life,forgetting their past?Is it socially accepted in our society, and what about the woman who faces so many difficulties and other traumas in life.What about you,will you marry a person who is divorced?Wont that affect you in anyway?Even if you marry the person,later on will it come in between the two of you?This is a serious topic so please reply seriously.
133 responses
@tom_rodrick (118)
• India
12 Dec 06
yes i agree. if u love some then u will not see who or what she or he is
@fadzy1314 (174)
• Pakistan
13 Dec 06
divorcees r not unique in dis life...many ppl get divorce juss caz of no reason...or juss caz of his or her partner.,...so y shud they take all the blame or y should they sufer
@saeedsid (1119)
• Pakistan
13 Dec 06
I think its not that after a divorce life ends up if a person is good it doesnot at all matter whether he/she is divorced or not and in case of women I agree it mostly happens in most of the societies that those women are not much accepted and yes they do face a lot of troubles in their entire life but I think it all depends on thinking abilities of different people it all depends on ur perspective thats all i want to clearify over here. so be positive in each and every aspect and judge the people according to their behaviour not by what has happened to them in their past just move with the present and for the future :)
@Tanushree4444 (1275)
• India
13 Dec 06
IF I LOVE THAT PERSON AND UNDERSTAND/KNOW HIM WELL AND HE EQUALLY UNDERSTANDS ME AND CARES FOR ME THEN DEFINITELY I WOULD GET MARRIED TO HIM EVEN IF HE IS DIVORCED!
@srinathakarapu (3093)
• India
12 Dec 06
well, i would consider to look into her past before taking future steps. atleast if she has a relavant reason for her divorce then i can proceed
@lilttownmommie (1473)
• United States
12 Dec 06
my ex husband was divorced, so my answer is yes, and my husband married me & i was divorced so i guess we are alike :)
@prue187 (517)
• United States
12 Dec 06
My husband and I went through the same process. We were both divorced. I already have a daughter before we got married. We have the same experience with our exes, They cheated on us and did some horrible things. Now I'm happily married with him, we have an 18 mos old son and he treats my daughter as his own. There were traumatic experience that I've been through, If I didn't allow my him in my life now, then I have missed a person capable of loving me as much as I do. There's no reason not to fall in love again.
@Albone (1338)
• Italy
12 Dec 06
why not? a divorce is not a mark that condemn people to be alone for the rest of its life... Everyone can do mistakes in his life... I think that a divorced person could be more experienced than others!
And if you falled in love with a divorced people would you resist?
@Alexandria37 (5717)
• Ireland
12 Dec 06
Yes, I would marry a divorced person, depending on the reason as to why he was divorced. If it was his ex wife's fault, then I would definitely marry him. If it was his fault, then difinitley not, as I may find myself in the same boat some years later.
@cooldude8889 (2609)
• Singapore
12 Dec 06
Well it depends how much i like the person.But honestly,I won't actually marry a person who is divorced.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
12 Dec 06
yes a woman should be able to marry again after divorce. My mom did. It's not so much as forgetting their past but building a future with someone new.
I would marry someone who is divorced, and I dont think that a divorce would come between me and my future husband. I wouldn't be upset that he was married before or anything.
@avonrep1 (1862)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Yes it is okay to marry again. It has been done since the beginning of time. I done my family research and found that for over 1000 years women in my family have gotten remarried. Some were widowed and some were divorced. A question I have for you is why is it okay for men but not for sure on women? Thats a double standard.
@Kylalynn (1771)
• South Africa
12 Dec 06
People can marry as many times as they like. It is not against the law. I have only been married once, am still married. I don't know if I would marry again if something happened to my husband. But you never know. We don't really know what it is like until we have been in the situation.
@suchetan230044 (618)
• India
12 Dec 06
divorce is not a problem at all.if i love someone who is divorced...i would surely marry her..love is all that really matters.mistakes do happen.and it may not be her mistake too that let to the divorce.may be she didnt get me in her life before...now i am in her life...well kewl.marry her...wats the proble...and later on it will come....definitely...but as a repentence that why didnt she find me before...
