Is infidelity (cheating) instinctual or premeditated?

adultery - lovers
Romania
December 11, 2006 2:24pm CST
What makes people cheat (be unfaithfull)? Is it some kind of "basic instinct" or something different?
2 responses
@norteh (615)
• Netherlands
11 Dec 06
It's not wise, it's a choice and it's not done. You not only cheet on your significant other, but also on yourself.
@smacksman (6053)
11 Dec 06
Absolutly natural I'm afraid to say. Just don't do it even when the temptation is really strong. It hurts people in the end.