Have you got friends who never post to your discussions?
By dana234
@dana234 (2114)
Spain
December 11, 2006 5:32pm CST
IsnĀ“t the sense of making friends here to contribute to each others discussions?
11 responses
@starr4all (2863)
•
12 Dec 06
I try to, but can't always. When you have a lot of friends it gets hard too. If I have time I make an attempt to answer in at least one from all my friends. It doesn't always happen, but I try.
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@starr4all (2863)
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12 Dec 06
I forgot to add, that I don't expect any of my friends to answer mine.
@creationhub (3066)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 07
For me it doesn't matter if my friends online respond to my discussions or not. Maybe, what I post is not in their line of interest. There are always others who will read and post responses. We need to be patient and time will yield fruits. That's why I never got tired or bored of posting at mylot.
@Lauraleigh99 (4718)
• United States
11 Dec 06
Yeah and no. I don't post every discussion that is made by people in my friends lists. Sometimes they will post things that I don't want to discuss or they post something stupid like what is your eye color and I don't wast to answer those questions either
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
28 Jan 07
I have a lot of people that are on my friend list that don't bother with me, so guess what? They aren't my friends after awhile, I just delete them. I want to make some pleasant friends, and contribute to discussions with them.
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@euniceeleanor (5967)
• Singapore
12 Dec 06
yes, i do! it's so puzzling, why would they want to add me into their friend's list when they dont like my discussions? i thought we are suppose to request for friends that we enjoy their discussions? i have to admit that there are some friends that i will respond only once out of obligation as they belong to the group that kept on starting repetitive discussion with oneliner answer...i know i'm suppose to be deleting some of them..but my profile shows i have 200+ friends, and i can only view 10 pages...so i always let it be
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@kelly60 (4547)
• United States
2 Feb 07
I don't necessarily delete them, at least not right away, but I will turn my notification off for them. I don't always respond to every discussion all of my friends make either because I may not be interested in all of them, but I try to at least respond to some of them.
Since my list is small right now I have my notification turned on for most of them. I only have it off for those who do not respond to my discussions.
@istanto (8548)
• Indonesia
12 Dec 06
I realy don't care if my friends response on my discussion or not. they have to choose which one they want to reply. if they want then im apreciated that if not then no problem. don't use your friend to make money in here i think that was unfair.. if you just be a friend then dont push them to response and let they freedom to choose which one they want.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
11 Dec 06
i do have alot of friends that has never posted in my discussions, i will clean up my list in the next few days.
@ajithlal (14716)
• India
11 Dec 06
I got a lots of friends who never contributed to my post. Some of my post has zero response, but some of my posts got very good response. The topics I think will get lots of response sometimes gets very few response and the topics I think will get response will get lots of response. I tries to rate the good discussions as far as possible with positive for quality responses.
@deeeky (3667)
• Edinburgh, Scotland
11 Dec 06
I quite agree. It seems that there are discussions being created every second and it it's hard to keep up with responses.
Maybe if just now and then we all stick to one interest and build up a good dosier it might improve things.
what do you think?
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