DREAM I've this Dream,what do u think it means?

Hong Kong
December 11, 2006 5:49pm CST
well,I broke up with him almost 4 months now,but I still dream about him.In the dream,we are happy,doing things that we'd never do in real life,and that's alright,at least we are happy together in the dream.But 1 thing that bothers me a lot is that we sleep together and his wife is on the same bed sleeping and He holds me instead of his wife.I feel kinda bad woking up,although it's not real,but I feel so ashamed. I know I'm a bad to screw their marrige,but I got out of there,and pls don't judge me.
13 responses
@ESKARENA1 (18261)
12 Dec 06
ohhhhhhh this dream suggests your subconscious mind still has unfinished business with him, non of us are in a position to judge you because we have not lived your life, but i think you do need to work through your feelings for this man for the sake of your own mental health
• Hong Kong
12 Dec 06
U know what,i still have feeling for this man,but I hate him even more.I'm so confused right now,because I wanna move on,but I still miss him 24/7
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
12 Dec 06
when she replace this love with a new one it will change
@pinkypop (662)
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Good for you to go out of that relationship. Its not good to screw up things especially to those who are already married. Better for you to find a guy who will marry you in the future. You are just being hunted by that bad relationship of yours before. Pray to God to give you His protection and guidance in finding your Mr. Right. Goodluck
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
Yes,and I'm proud of that,Anyway,Thanks for your concern.
12 Dec 06
If it's just a dream, it's a fantasy and your doing nothing wrong. It shows you still care for him - there's still some feelings there for him but that doesn't mean your doing anything wrong. Afterall it's just a dream and your not coming between them.
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
true,Thank god I'm no longer with him or get in his way,otherwise I'd feel so guilty.Thanks for your response.
@amber81 (288)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I say that you feel guilty for what you did and so its all coming back at you in your dreams to try in up set you.. but yet i think you still have feelings for this guy... i think that your telling yourself you hate him but i think that you really do care or even love this man.. is he married .. is that right? .. my sister has done that ... and now their together but he still goes back to his wife allllllll the time.. so i would suggest not going back to him .. cause you would be very hurt if he did that to you!
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
True,Thanks for your advise,I won't go back to him I promise.
• United States
12 Dec 06
It means you still want what you don't have. That you wish things were different. It's your subconcious longing for him. It's a bad situation to be in. I don't envy you. In the end it's you who has to live with your decisions. You feel ashamed because you knew it was wrong and did it anyway.
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
That;s so true.and how I feel,Thanks for being so honest.
• India
12 Dec 06
well dreams are always dreams and everything looks so wonderful and beautiful that u dont want to come out of it , its better u broke up and believe me u did the great thing keep it up and be positive as sumthing nice is waiting for u.
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
Yes,that was just a dream,althought it made me feel bad.Anywy,Thanks for your encouragement and response.
@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
12 Dec 06
Let them whom has never sinned cast the first stone.lol I haven't done as you have. But I sometimes still dream of my exboyfriend and I have been married almost 16 years now. They say that our dreams are trying to tell us something and it may take awhile for our minds to grasp ahold of the meaning,But makyeb your dream was representing that when he was with you he wasn't with his wife. Holding her and loving her. Maybe subconsiously you feel guilty about it. And that you miss the times you had with him. I htink that like someone else said when you find another to love that you may or may not stop dreaming about it. Because as I said ocassionally I still have dreams of my ex.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I think you are just missing what you had dont feel bad about it just move on and find someone who will have time to focus on you as family not some others
• Hong Kong
12 Dec 06
U know what,i still have feeling for this man,but I hate him even more.I'm so confused right now,because I wanna move on,I just can't and I miss him 24/7,but lucky I've feelings for a guy,I wanna take it slow,I hope this time I don't screw up.Anyway,Thanks for your help.
@prue187 (517)
• United States
12 Dec 06
I wouldn't judge you,I really think you need a closure. I have been haunted by the same dream sometimes but it's more of a nightmare to me. I'm married to a wonderful person now. Your dream might have a deeper meaning. Maybe there's this guilt inside you that keeps coming back, all you need to do is pray that you'll get over him. There's no need for you to feel bad it's only a dream that's taunting you, try not to think of him.
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
yes,u are right,i guess there's guilt inside me.Luckily u are married to a wonderful guy,good luck with both of u.And I hope I would get over him and find someone who's not married,Anyway,Thank u so much for your response.
@Kylalynn (1771)
• South Africa
12 Dec 06
Sounds like this dream is what you really want to happen in reality. I hope you meet someone you like that is not married. All the best.
@volschenkh (1043)
• South Africa
12 Dec 06
Its definately your subconscience telling you something of what you are really feeling. You are still holding on to the "fanatasy" of the relationship, knowing that its not right or would never work. Dont feel ashamed, its normal. But you have to deal with it otherwise you might make the same mistake!
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
Yes,exactly,u know how I feel.And I hope i wouln'd make the same mistake again.Thanks for your response.
• Canada
12 Dec 06
My interpretation of this dream is that you feel haughty over possessing her husband while she lays so closely. Your ego is displaying itself. Many women relish flirting with another's husband and receiving a good response and especially enjoy it when the wife is close by and can see the exchange of glances. For some reason it makes the other woman feel superior for 'an instant'. This is not my judgment of you, but an interpretation of your dream.
• Hong Kong
13 Dec 06
yes,u are right,I decided to be with him was because he's unattainable.And then we had something going on,and now,I'm glad that we broke up.Anyway,Thanks for your response.
@ferozali (54)
• India
12 Dec 06
Its your anger pushed you away from him,but love for him is still the same,better you sacrifise your love toward him,if he is happy with his marriage life.
• Hong Kong
12 Dec 06
Yes,I agree with u,Love is Sacrific.But I just don't know what I want from him and what I expect.