Older or Younger?
By madonna143
@madonna143 (1737)
Philippines
119 responses
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
12 Dec 06
hehee, you have interesting questions. Well, usually, not all the time, but the older the more experienced in the art of love, and more self control. So, I will op for older.
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@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
15 Dec 06
I could see being with a younger man as well. As long as the head set was the same on both people, and they could converse. It really depends on the people. You only have one life, and you may as well take your happiness when and how it comes. Have a great day.
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
Well I guess old or younger, for as long as you are happy with him then its okay for you isn't it? I too have the same view on this. I wold not care less of what others may think if ever the age gap of my future lover would be. For as long as we are happy and in love I will stand by it.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Most women do prefer older men, although I have female friends who does prefer younger men because they love energetic men. You usually feel more secured with being with an older guy I guess. thanks and more power to you!
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
Does it really matter that if your a man you would prefer a younger woman? Well as for me I can go with both for as long as I like being with that person whether he is younger or older.
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@prasad1961 (5597)
• India
23 Dec 06
I've never understood why people consider youth a time of freedom and joy. It's probably because they have forgotten their own. You know older is much experienced ones in any act. Understood man why the girl opts for older! Don't you think positively.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
I am really having a hard time following your line of thought. Maybe you could explain a bit more clearly. I really don't know what you mean.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Thank you for responding to my post. So I guess for you, older and more experienced women is a plus factor. Well as for me I can go with any for as long as they make me happy and I also make him happy. Some younger people are even more experienced than the older ones!
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
Most women do like their men to be older than them. Maybe its because of the maturity and experience that older men have. They are more usually stable than younger men. Thank you for your thoughts and have a nice day!
@mfrancq (1806)
• United States
16 Dec 06
You know, I don't know why but I have always dated a younger guy. For some reason I just attract them like little magnets! hehe In fact, my husband is almost three years younger then I am. It's funny, because he can honestly call me his old lady and get away with it. He says when I'm forty he is trading me in for two twenty year old girls. I told him good luck. All they will want is money! hehe We love teasing each other like that.
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
25 Dec 06
Your reply made me smile. You are a magnet of youth maybe. If I were a wife like you I would not let my husband get away with calling me his old lady! Hehehehe but it was truly very amusing. It really does help to have humor in a relationship. It does add some spice to it.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
20 Dec 06
Why would you prefer a younger lover? What do you see in young lover that can't be found in older lovers? What if an older lover comes into your life?
@ContentWriter (954)
• South Africa
16 Dec 06
I don't discriminate :)
I have had both and each has their advantages. Older lovers are more likely to be knowledgable - but nothing can quite replace the adoration of a younger man.
To me the ideal lover is a few years older than me :)
@greenmango (1019)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
younger cuz idk why haha
old are dusty and rusty kasi haha
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@Darkwing (21583)
•
16 Dec 06
I don't have a preference here. I love somebody for what they are inside and whether they are older or younger than I, doesn't matter a hoot.
If you get along and have similar interests, can converse, love and laugh together, then that is the be-all and end-all. Age is just a number.
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@sunflowergirl (3064)
• United Arab Emirates
17 Dec 06
love has no age..but id prefar hmm 2-3y older den me...............i am 25...so like 26-30!!!
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@abhiroop85 (2826)
• Scottsdale, Arizona
16 Dec 06
interesting topic,nobody asked me this before...............if i am flirting with any girl her age will not be a bar for me,if i am serious about her then i would prefer her to be younger than me.
@vishwas_niraj (2759)
• India
16 Dec 06
i dont know but my lover is elder then me ...
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@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
23 Dec 06
That's a good point, but some older women sometimes still tend to have that habit. It is really very subjective and quite innate in every person's character, don't you think so?
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
13 Dec 06
Thank you for responding to my post. I wonder why you would prefer an older girl. Most men prefer their women to be younger than them. I hope you would enlighten us on your choice. Thanks and more power to you.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
Well I guess the approval of the family means a lot. But sometimes its really hard to please our parents.
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
As i have said, me usually prefer younger women as women would usually go for older men. Don't you agree?
@madonna143 (1737)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Some really do say that women love older men because they are more mature. They even say that women are more matured than men. But as time passes, men regain their maturity.
@cutejhan18 (910)
• Philippines
16 Dec 06
i prefer older one coz i want to be mych pampered
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